i'm a kind of secretive person. i usually hide my secrets and problems from the people around me. my reason is that i don't want them to worry too much about me. it's not that i don't trust them, it's just i don't like them to know that i have a lot of problems. does it affect my social relationship or not?
2006-11-13 19:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by sweet_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes because youre not opening yourself to others. You should be more open, sometimes you just need advice from your friends and for them to worry about you atleast once in a while.Besides keeping alot of problems to yourself isnt good, its not healthy and one day your just gonna explode emotionally.*
2006-11-13 19:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love to give you the answer to this question, but I am a kind of secretive person. I hope this does not affect my social relationship with you. I trust you and all, I just can't tell you because I am my secrets. I know you'll understand.
2006-11-13 19:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by raven dismukes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. It definitely affects your social relationships. People will notice if you're not opening up. I used to be really secretive about everything. I never shared my feelings and people ended up thinking I was stuck up. Just try to be open, if someone trusts you enough to share their feelings with you, you should be able to do the same.
2006-11-13 20:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Elizabeth C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-14 06:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that will effect your relationships with others except that they will worry about you perhaps moreso than they might if they knew what was going on in your life. People are naturally sympathetic, they want to help you and make sure everything is ok with you. I think your social life will suffer less than your mental health. Its simply unhealthy to keep all of that stress bottled up inside of you all the time.
2006-11-13 19:09:54 · answer #5 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to 'get' you have to 'give',,,yes it does make others think you do not trust them,,as relationships develop,friends or otherwise you share more of yourself,,if not,,the relationship goes stale,,your life is not an open book to those who care for you and that can really hurt,,it may eventually make these same people wonder exactly why they bother .
2006-11-13 19:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so. you can socialize by talking about anything under the sun other than your personal life of course. besides, i think you just moved up the line of candidates people would want to be their friend - cause since you don't wanna talk, you're probably a good listener. a lot of people would love that.
2006-11-13 19:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it does, when someone cares about you and you shut them out it comes off as you couldn't care less for them or their feelings for or about you.
-NmD!
2006-11-13 19:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!
You can trust me. since i am also mysterious.
2006-11-13 19:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋