Is she hinting me?

Question

i have a friend that i met from work and we've been hanging out a lot for the past couple of months and she send me a text saying" would u ever be with a girl?" and "i said i dunno y have u?" and she replied back "i have never been in a relationship with a girl but wouldnt it bey the same? i mean girls can kiss and cuddle plus we're not jerks and yes i have thought" do u think shes hinting me at something? thats not the first time shes asked me that...shell say sexual stuff to me but as a joke..but shes still obssessed about her ex. &she talks about him 24/7 so i think she just feels hurt and is wonderin if it would be diff with a girl. im confused..the wierd thing is i have thought about it before (how it would be to be with her)but we're both i think depressed, &have similar problems &thats prob the only reason i have thought about it. Also once at the mall i brought up the fact of how people would be reacting if we walked together holding hands &she said we should try it to see

Answer 1

She's a close friend.You both confused cos of the sudden closeness that has occured.Nothing romantic is happening,when you move things to further levels things happen that you would not like..for example You decide to move things to further levels in the duration of your encounter she meets a great guy or you meet a guy...what would happen then? or if another female comes along and she gets with her how would you feel? casual flings amongst friends don't work even under agreement because one of you is bound to get stronger feelings for the other one. The basis here is you gonna end up doing what you want...so do just that and keep in mind there is tomorow and the next day after you've done what you decide to do.

Answer 2

maybe. Don't think too hard though or you could screw up a good thing. Just let it be and find out

Answer 3

Um yeah. She is hitting on you. Yup. Do whatever you feel is right!