We work together so it makes it really hard and she has met someone else and says she is happy with him and that is torture to me, she mentioned the good sex she is having and i just wanted to cry! What can i do?
2006-11-13 18:54:04 · 17 answers · asked by nine_ball_tattoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go out with friends, get a new hobby, go out on dates, anything to get your mind off her. stop focusing on her and move on with your life. set your goals on what you want your future to be. and this one works for me: make a list of things you hate about her and whenever you miss her, remind yourself of those things.
2006-11-13 18:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bubuchachum 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can keep taking her verbal abuse or you can quit that stupid job and look after yourself. No job is worth listening to the trash she is talking. Just quit! You can get another job.
It takes a long time to get over someone when you aren't looking at them every day and you can only get over her when you are away, allowing yourself time to grieve and not let her rub her sex life in your face.
I doubt you'll take this advice because your pain is so deep right now that you think seeing her everyday is better than nothing, but you will eventually wish you had.
2006-11-13 18:57:48 · answer #2 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you needs to change your job. This is not good for you.
You can't kick a habit until you go clean. Love is like an addiction. If she doesnt want you (even if she did you shouldnt take her back, she's switched off of you and she's sadistic), you need to stay away from her in order to kick the habit.
There are withdrawal symptoms but staying around will be like trying to quit alcoholism while working in a pub. No worse. Alcohol doesn't rub your nose in it while youre trying to withdraw.
2006-11-13 21:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by cognoscible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good sex? That Biatch!
I know how hard this is gonna be for you. DO NOT CONFRONT her unless you really want her back.
If you really want to get over her, try harder. Do stuff to keep her off yer mind. It's gonna be really hard and I wish I can really help, but ur the only one who can do that.
It does sound like u really liked her. If it is meant, it will be. But forcing the hand of destiny is never a good idea. Good luck
2006-11-13 19:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by SiZZLoRR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a vacation go out its over and you need to realize it first if she is mentioning sex she want you to be jealous so do her one good and just ignore it better yet tell her hey that's great I'm glad to hear that you gotta get rid of this bunny foo foo attitude and move on i been hurt many o'time but guess what there are a whole lot more out there to find. and one day one will treat you with the respect you deserve
2006-11-13 18:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by DR.PHIL-A-LIKE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to not talk to her. She's obviously trying to hurt you and your best defense is to not give her the opportunity.
I understand it's difficult to avoid her when you work together but you need to work to minimize the amount of time you're around her and keep from talking about anything not related to work.
I am very sorry that she's treating you like this, we've all had bad breakups but it sounds like this is being drawn out by her.
2006-11-13 18:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she is trying to make you jealous if she mentioned her sex life. when me and my ex broke up, i acted like i didnt care and found someone else and it made him sooo jealous. he asked me back out like i wanted and now we are happier than ever. i am not saying that will work for you but what do you have to lose?
2006-11-13 19:12:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but she is a total b*tch for telling you her s*xcapades after the break up...she's not worth a zack for hurting you like this...try to move on...it's hard but only you can help yourself...
try imovane...don't use it longer than indicated ok? i did that before coz i couldn't sleep, i was heart broken too or better see your doctor for a better prescription...i'm serious, you need to sleep otherwise you'll go nuts and feel wasted...been there, done that!
2006-11-13 19:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find you someone or act like you did you can brag to but get over her it's plenty of other women out there that will love you for you don't dwell on her let it go move on you can do it i promise
2006-11-13 19:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by k2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possible things. Find a new girl and brag abwt her, or just tell her how you feel. It sounds loke you really love her, and she should know that.
2006-11-13 18:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by carloveits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋