you just don't want a rejection trip.
and hopefully keep an enjoyable friendship.
2006-11-13 18:41:34 · 9 answers · asked by john john 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
he's been to my house, i've been to his.
(once )
it is like there is this line we are not crossing and i don't know what to do to get through what needs to happen.
i love him , he doesn't know it.
2006-11-13 19:10:57 · update #1
First of all, ask yourself why do you want to be with him. Is it just because he's hot, or more than that.
Next, make sure he's gay or willing to be gay.
Your approach often depends on the situation. If you are in a bar, or a situation where alcohol or another substance is being consumed by you and others, you could stand to be a little bit more forward, such as asking him if he would like to stop by your place.
However, if you're approaching him in a non mind-altering substance situation, you might want to try a more subtle approach. You could go on an outing together, a trip, or maybe invite him over for dinner.
Usually, if you answer the first 2 questions mentioned above, it should be relatively easy to "be with him".
Good luck.
2006-11-13 18:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by tylersf 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you genuinely think he's interested, use body language to communicate your feelings. Look at him with lust in your eyes, brush against him (subtly, don't molest him!) - try to say it without words, and see if he responds the same way.
If he doesn't, then he's either not interested, or too nervous to pursue it, in which case I'm afraid you'll need to back off.
Good luck.
2006-11-14 09:06:29 · answer #2 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short to always wonder "what if?". Just ask him out.Try communicating with a potential partner.No one can read your mind!
2006-11-14 04:42:48 · answer #3 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
life is to short. Just go up to him and ask him out.
2006-11-14 02:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by raygay 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
start by asking him his opinion on same sex marriages...that might give you an opinion of where he stands...or at least the beginning of a conversation.
2006-11-14 04:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't help you there. I'm not gay and I'm not a man
2006-11-14 02:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Become a catholic priest.
2006-11-14 02:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by zeepogee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ask him
2006-11-14 03:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bl-w job when he's drunk
2006-11-14 02:47:51 · answer #9 · answered by mike 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋