I love one person too much but because of society, friends and family humiliation, I have no choice but to set her free. They told that our love is immoral.
2006-11-13 17:22:51 · 12 answers · asked by cryptaesthesia79 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're in a very difficult situation. I know it is hard to ignore the pressure of society and family as much as we like to pretend that love conquers all. However, what is most important to you and your well being is that you follow your truth. If you truly love this person, then follow your bliss with him/her and let the chips fall where they may. It is never healthy to pretend you're something you're not, or to let your dreams and desires be crushed by ignorant people who don't understand. Be true to yourself and that is the greatest happiness you can hope to achieve.
2006-11-13 17:29:14 · answer #1 · answered by GV B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I couldn't sacrifice. There was a time when I thought I would have to for reasons you say above. It was the hardest thing to stay and love my girlfriend. Overtime the family and friends began to accept it wasn't a passing phase and I loved this girl.
They are only humiliated because they themselves do not know how to react and are not secure enough in themselves to be ok if friends mock them.
Your love is not immoral. It is far from it. Who is allowed to say what love is immoral. I think that if two people can love each other, no matter the differences, it is better than being alone or hating everyone.
2006-11-14 01:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your family, friends and society are forcing you to either give up your love or be banished from the family, then they've gone too far, and your only real choice is to leave them to their sorry fate, while you continue your life with your true loved one and stand up for yourself under no one else's authority but your own sense of right, wrong, and reason. They've betrayed you by threatening violence against you, and now you can either become their slave and betray your partner, making you no better than them, or do the right thing and go out on your own.
2006-11-14 01:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait! You love this person? Who are you really trying to protect here? If you love her and you are a her also,that only means your gay.It doesn't mean you are immoral.Now let's say you are 18 and she's 12 and you want to "love" her...that's immoral.Between consenting adults,nothing should be immoral.
Society today is much more open than when I was exploring my sexuality.I find it difficult to believe in this day and age, that we would let "society" ruin our relationships.Good luck with YOUR decision!It's no one else's to make.
2006-11-14 04:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by auntgnu62 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't sacrifice the person I love.
My family and friends accept me the way that I am, but if they didn't then I'd have nothing to do with them. I have to live my life for ME, not for ANYONE ELSE! You only get one chance in this lifetime to make yourself happy!
I'm sorry for you, but you took the cowardly way out. You didn't stand up for yourself, you let other people decide how you should live your life.
2006-11-14 01:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by ByTheSea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would sacrifice for the person I loved, if I felt my love was doing them harm. But it would have to be them telling me that, not society, family or even friends (unless the friends were just relaying messages for him/her because he/she couldn't face me with it.)
2006-11-14 01:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by angiekaos 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who are they to judge? Now you must be unhappy because they want top play God and judge you. Remind them of David and Jonathan were heroic figures of the Kingdom of Israel, whose intimate relationship was recorded favorably in the Old Testament books of Samuel.
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Ruth's famous words, "For wherever you go, I will go ...," are used in Catholic and some Protestant marriage services, underscoring the similarity of marriage and religious conversion in their covenantal nature. She was speaking to Naomi.
It is no one elses business but yours who you love
2006-11-14 01:47:18 · answer #7 · answered by Chris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They also told me that my relationship was immoral.
I am greek(caucasian) and she is Haitian(black).
We decided to stick together 20 years ago and it was the best thing we could have done.
There is no need to sacrifice anything for the opinion of others.
2006-11-14 01:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by mike 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not. i would set us both free and take my woman and move. humiliation? society? whatever. they can keep it. my grrl and i don't need society and humiliation if we have each other.
2006-11-14 01:26:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you going to life your life, or are you going to let your parents live it for you!
2006-11-14 02:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by ~?~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋