Are "straight-acting" gay guys usually tops? I hooked up with a guy that was very "straight-acting" but we only had oral. If we took it further would he be the top? Can I just assume this because we categorizes himself as a "straight-acting" guy? So am I but I'm versatile but I don't go around telling others I'm "straight-acting". Should I assume this?
2006-11-13 17:03:10 · 10 answers · asked by Nrassm 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I have noticed that a higher percentage of tops tend to be straight-acting, but no role preference for straight-acting gay guys in general. To try to make my explanation clearer, if you get a group of tops together you will most likely notice that a majority are straight-acting, but if you get a group of straight-acting gay guys together you most likely wouldn't find a difference in role preference.
2006-11-13 17:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nope, not always.
I've seen hyper-masculine muscle men as bottoms and ultra-femmey men play the top. There's really no rhyme or reason to it. Straight-acting men might want to play the top, and it's understandable, but a lot of times, the one thing a person wants is to have that which seems forbidden to them- hence many straight men wanting to be topped and penetrated (by women with strap-ons). So straight-acting gay guys can want to be bottoms, too. All depends.
2006-11-13 17:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by cando_86 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
No. It's 50/50 I think. I am the most femmiest guy and I am a total top.
2006-11-14 10:59:56 · answer #3 · answered by Allan M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont assume anything. Expect the unexpected. Most are versatile, it more fun
2006-11-13 18:03:31 · answer #4 · answered by timbo_boi15 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
NO. I know alot of Str8 acting boys who behind close doors want to flip over and get it hard.
2006-11-14 00:00:39 · answer #5 · answered by david s 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when you assume you make an *** out of U and ME. most people assume butch women are tops and femmes are bottoms. i'm uber femme and topped all my pillow princess butch lovers. people have sex. it's fun to mix it up. lots of people think so.
str8 acting doesn't mean not gay. it means not nellie in public. fortunately most people don't have sex right out in public so all bets are off in the bedroom. just flip him over and do your dang thang. then let him flip and dang thang you.
2006-11-13 17:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
some st8 acting guys will have there
legs up in the air before you can take
your pants off.
I am taking for experience.......
2006-11-13 22:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...in my oppinion, the straighter acting, the bigger the "bottom"
2006-11-14 00:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by Michael O 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No not at all...can't really tell until you are having sex with them.
2006-11-13 17:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in my experience they are tops, but then i could be wrong!
2006-11-13 17:10:16 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋