is it safe to have a relation in ur working place . what abt if he is ur boss and if u know that there is something even from his side .how should i react?
2006-11-13 16:15:44 · 29 answers · asked by anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say no.He is your boss,and also a man.Once he gets what he wants,your employee, boss relationship will be over,and you as an employee will take the worst end of the deal.Even a relationship with him outside work could cause problems at work.Be smart,if you want to keep your job.Think with your head,not with your heart.Or with your body.That is not meant to be an insult.Just truth.
2006-11-13 16:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All good questions. Here's my advice/suggestions:
1. Make sure that what you feel for your boss is for HIM; and not his STATUS as your employer.
2. No matter how discreet both of you are, the rest of the staff will eventually find out about your relationship with the boss. Be prepared for all kinds of reactions to that!
3. Continuing that thought, consider this: YOU might be ready for a relationship at the office, even with the drama, cat calls and envy from co-workers, but, is your BOSS ready for employees who may act differently towards HIM? The answer may cost you YOUR job!
4. Love DISTRACTS Work. So, is it safe to love AT work? Well, logically, my answer is NO. However, because love is ILLOGICAL, I say, "Follow your heart." Love is not something to be taken lightly or played with. Only YOU know when it is the real deal. But be careful: LUST often wears Love as a MASK!
Thanks for your inquiries, my friend. I hope my replies help you make a sound decision.
Good Luck to you!
2006-11-13 17:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We cant say when love starts. It snot ur mistake.
What I can suggest is if u really like him, u should not continue in ur job in ur office cause some conflicts may arise. So first leave out ur job and when ur leaving express ur feelings and tell him that ur leaving because of him only.
Then u wont be having any troubles. All the Best.
2006-11-13 16:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Prince 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...are you talking about extra marrital affair? not good baby..
if u like ur boss, no prob. you can tell. but if u love ur boss and he is married, then u r trying to screwing up his or your family. if both of u r not married, then study the background of family, and then go a head.. all the best.
2006-11-13 17:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi do u know whether he is bachelor? if not dont try to have dreams about him. IN work area even though u love him some people make politics and try to break. so better to resign get a new job and then ask him directly. take care best of luck
2006-11-13 17:09:18 · answer #5 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u express ur feeling 2 ur boss but one thing u and ur boss is same generation ?
2006-11-14 00:17:37 · answer #6 · answered by silver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should check the policy about dating in the work place....because you may not be able to date your boss....
2006-11-13 16:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by peak033 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont take decision first understand him properly, make sure you know everything about him and wait till he make the move because any wrong step can effect your carrer and if he shows interest just be normal.
2006-11-13 16:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Cool gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step away from the plate. This is considerably dangerous grounds. Unless you have another job lined up for you to fall back on later.
2006-11-13 16:19:01 · answer #9 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your working place you can but avoid your boss.if you think he is also interested then it will be fine if you leave this job and join somewhere else and then go ahead with this affair.You should not show any reaction presently.
2006-11-13 16:21:52 · answer #10 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋