I talk to my husband about Arizona everyday, how much Id like to move back there. I moved out of AZ 4 years ago for a private reason. I miss AZ so much. Now I wanna go back. But husband doesnt say much about it. I guess Im alone in going back huh?
2006-11-13 16:09:23 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am kinda in the same situation. I am from Michigan and we are in California right now. I am not happy here and I miss my family. Our kids are here with us but I think it is going to come down to me leaving him. I just want to do whats best for our children. They don't like it here either. I don't think he will ever go back there. I am just praying about it so maybe you should do the same.
2006-11-13 16:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by HI:) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you're taking the wrong attitude here.
You want to go to Arizona. He hasn't said anything. You think you're moving alone.
Whatever happened to being a team?
Have you TALKED to him about moving to Arizona? We're not talking about dropping hints, have you stood in front of him and said, "honey, I want to move back to Arizona"? If you haven't, then you have no room to talk.
Have you asked him how he felt? Is he in his dream job? Does he not want to move because of family in the area? What situations are around this?
While Arizona is your dream, you are a team now. It's not just about you. You both need to communicate and talk this over because you make the decision to leave him for Arizona.
2006-11-14 00:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you moved out there for a "private reason", we can't really offer advice or opinions because we have no idea why you moved out there. If it was something illegal, maybe you're husband doesn't want to tangle with the lawmen. If you or he were cheating, maybe he doesn't want to run into the "other" person. If you're running from the mob, maybe he's afraid you'll get offed, etc. etc.
2006-11-14 00:15:25 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't force the issue, but considering he hasn't said flat out no, sounds like the subject is open for conversation. So I'd set down and a long talk and weigh out the pros and cons.
2006-11-14 00:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not worth throwing your marriage away- you are married to your husband - not someone in Az- this is the most important relationship whether you realize it or not-you took and oath and vows and you need to honor them- D
2006-11-14 00:20:31 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go back 4 private reasons?
2006-11-14 00:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why don't you try telling him how serious you are about moving back there.... maybe make it a plan for the future.
2006-11-14 00:17:47 · answer #7 · answered by springo88 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the point is not that your alone... but that you are unhappy with where you are presently residing.
search a little deeper, and pray about it.
2006-11-14 00:11:09 · answer #8 · answered by BeezKneez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why does he have to go back with you? You moved his way, now it's his turn to share in the relationship, so....if we does not want to go, then leave him .
2006-11-14 00:12:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
no u stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont go back if u marry a person u love them your husband should be with u at all times! if he cares alot enough to marry u he'll go!
2006-11-14 00:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by supermanpunked 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋