My friend likes the same person I do. She doesn't know I like the person she likes. She claims she's had feelings for this person for almost a year now. Am I doing the right thing by "trying my hardest" to move on and just forget about how I feel so my friend won't end up being hurt by me?
2006-11-13 16:03:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think you are a wonderful friend. No boy is worth the loss of a true friendship, you must really care for your friend and I hope she cares that much about you. Situations and circumstances seem to work themselves out so just move on and be happy! Everything happens for a reason!!!!
2006-11-13 16:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Neetaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are. Sometimes we're attracted to a person our friends want our of competition or jealousy without realizing it until it's too late and we've lost that friend. A true, good friend is very hard to replace in life. You realize that when you're older. Think long and hard how important your friend is and be willing to lose your friend over this guy because it happens all of the time.
2006-11-13 16:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the person that you both have feeling decide who he want.
How sure are you that he might have feeling for you or your friend.If he choose you over your friend,can you accept it?If he choose you and your friend can't accept it that just because she is selfish.A friend should be considerate when come to these kind of issues.Its not fair for her that you did't tell her that you have feelings for this guy,she told you means you are a friend to her.
2006-11-13 16:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering you do know how she feels about this guy yes you are doing the right thing.
2006-11-13 16:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I ad a problem just like this....I didnt back off..it kinda of got alot of drama . So I suggest you tell you friend and discuss what you should do.
-hope I helped! :D
2006-11-13 16:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by tessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i belive you are doing the right thing
2006-11-13 16:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
somebody should break the ice and level
2006-11-13 16:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a good friend!! follow your heart.
2006-11-13 16:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think ur doing the right thing!!!!!!!!! keep it up!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 16:13:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋