i've told him over and over that i dont feel anything for him, but he keeps bringing it up. i dont feel anything for him besides friendship and he told me that its breaking his heart that he doesnt have a chance. i wanted to come visit for my bday but now im not sure; any suggestions advice would be GREATLY appreciated.
2006-11-13 15:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by ck 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him you really value his friendship and that you don't want to lose it. but if he keeps pressuring you to date him when you don't feel that way it's going to make it harder to keep that friendship.
also if you have any girl friends that seem to meet his style, try hooking them up to really put home that you don't want him.
2006-11-13 15:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially, be honest with your self! specific you do not sense the comparable way approximately him, permit him be attentive to in the present day or you would be caught in a concern which you do not prefer to be in. do not settle for a date from him anymore. decrease the telephone calls/chat line very short. If he's wise he will take a splash. He feels like he pressuring you into something that he needs and does not evaluate your thoughts. So what if he's "extreme high quality", he isn't that extreme high quality to not evaluate the way you sense.
2016-10-17 06:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel and your friend is acting kind of weird. Try to make it more clear to him but be polite. Tell him that he is really precious to you as a friend and he deserves someone better, more of his kind that can love him back. Explain him that its not going to work out if he keeps falling for you and you aren't interested. Tell him that he is so charming that any sweet girl would like to go out with him but not you.
If he doesn't get that you will have to take a step further and it could hurt him a little. You need to spend time with other guys or your other guy friends so that he gets that he is equally important like others but nothing more than that.
2006-11-13 15:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you can't give this guy any attention at all because it gets his hopes up. You will have to stop seeing him period.
Are you sure you aren't passing up a really good guy? Why not give him a chance with at least one date? The best relationships grow out of friendships.
2006-11-13 15:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really get this part actually,
"i wanted to come visit for my bday but now im not sure"
anyway.. maybe you can really really give him a chance or you just have to tell him again that you don't feel the same.. or the evil part.. you can like scold him.. make him wake up or something which is extremely sad case..
2006-11-13 15:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by lemonieHm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't see the chemistry that usually hits you when you meet someone. Without it there there is no future for a relationship. tellhim you respect him too much as a friend to hurt him in that way.
2006-11-13 15:42:44 · answer #6 · answered by keyswannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just say that you're comfortable with ONLY being friends with him. If he still brings it up it's just because he's trying to, what the word, try to, you know, force you to like you. And that's not what you want, right??? Then just tell him that he's a good guy, but he needs to stop FORCING you to like him. Remember, he's still your normal friend, and don't people like you, and you don't like them back. Well, he's just like that.
Best Wishes,
Kaeli :-)
2006-11-13 15:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really give him a chance. Hear him out, see what he has to say. You might find out that you do like him. It's never fun to be turned down.
2006-11-13 15:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him one last time but this time add that if he doesn't quit he's going to lose a good friend.You can't pressure me into loving you that way but you can make me start hating you.
2006-11-13 15:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him and talk about a new guy you met and how into him you are. Doesn't always work but it's worth a shot.
2006-11-13 15:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by Jason W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋