good friends are necessary in your life, they are your support structure as you are theirs when times get tough.
the ones that stab you in the back can take a hike right now, you don't need that kind of crap in your life
and the ones with benefits, that's one it depends on the friend. I've had a couple and a long as it's a mutual benefit and you both realize that's all it ever is, they're pretty nice to have.
2006-11-13 15:19:50
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answered by gypse76 3
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2006-11-13 15:17:33
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answer #2
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answered by Anonymous
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I like to have friends.
1) Good friends are great to have but i have to be able to trust them which, seeing as some stuff that i went through as a child with people that are closest to me, it makes it harder to trust people and make take awhile so they also have to be patent.
2) Friends that stab me in the back are not so great. They are the type of friends that are nice to your face then say stuff about you to other people thatgets other people talking about you. So with those friends i couldnt care less and back stabbers i dont really have to deal with because i wait awhile before i trust them enough to tell them something thats important enough for them to use against me and most back stabbers dont have enough patence.
3) I've never had a friend use me because it would really be pointless. I dont have anything worth using.
Friends are important because without friends you'll become lonly even if you have a significant other. Somethings you can't even tell your significant other you may need to confide in a friend. So without friends you could literally become depressed. The only bad thing that i can think of about friends is the time they require. When you have a family its hard t find time for friends, so a lot of the time you need to make sure you have friends that dont require a lot of attention. Im not trying to make it sould like your picking out cattle but thats really just how it is. At keast with me and how i choose a friend.
2006-11-13 15:22:48
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answered by armesia_combs 2
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some friends are good and some are bad, some will talk good things about you and some will back stab you and the list continues..
i have friends who backstab me but pretend she is my bestest friend and act as if she did not do anything wrong to me before.. i also have a friend who backstab me infront of me.. well, anleast i know she hates me, so i'll simply ignore her.. i also have friends who will backstab me only when she thinks i am a ***** and in other times she won't back stab me.. really really childish one but overall, she is ok.. now the good one.. i have a best friend who always be there for me, cry with me, travel for miles just to see me and make sure i am fine..
well, i can't really say friends are good or bad.. they are plenty kind of people.. just make sure you choose the right one.. some people don't have the reason why are they bad/good.. some people has a million and one reason to be bad/good to you.. probably they'll say "because i feel your sense of clothing sucks that's why i'm bad to you".. well, sounds pretty lame and childish but i've met people like this.. and some are just born to be bad.. i have no idea why...
just choose the right one..
2006-11-13 15:25:38
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answered by lemonieHm 2
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My mom always taught me that you only need a few really good, close friends. That way when I came across those that were the back stabbing kind or the using kind...........I didn't feel so bad when I came to the realization that they really weren't my friends!
2006-11-13 15:19:41
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answered by fastlanejiggy 4
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1) good friends help you when you are in need.
good friends are always there for you.
good friends are hard to come by.
good friends make life more enjoyable
good friends are priceless
good friends keep you outta trouble
good friends want the best for you
2) friend dont stab you, enemies do.
if someone backstabs you they were NEVER your friend
3) friends that use you are not friends either. they are bad people.
2006-11-13 15:19:09
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answered by Anonymous
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it's important to have friends because they could be their 4 u when u need help
2006-11-13 15:19:56
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answered by lilmed4ever 2
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Friends are there to help you through life and its problems... and friends are there to enjoy life with. That's why they're good.
And those "friends" who backstab you and just use you? Those are bad because they're just a mirage of evil.
2006-11-13 15:18:22
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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