I am married but am attracted to so many men.......?

Question

this year so far there have been 3, i never touched any although i thought about it and knew i could have them if i wanted to. Is this normal, I hate it and want it to stop. Is it because there might be something missing in my marriage?????

I put this in the wrong catagory, I am a female

Answer 1

Its okay to be attracted to other men, It is normal. I am sure your husband also is attracted to other women. Don't fret about it. Just remember of course it is your decision if you wanted to go out with another man but you will be left with some difficult consequences. One of the main consequences is guilt and you don't want that. Also I'm sure you would not want to ruin your marriage.

Answer 2

this is normal for all males. the penis is a monster on a stick.
it can only be tamed with ice or cold water. You are MARRIED.
if you want to stay that way then all you can do is use your immagination and wonder what it would be like to be with them.
Ball and Chain.........till death do you part.........forever...............
men dont think about the life after mairrage.
The male penis before mairrage controls the brain and floods the brain with I LOVE YOU............ga ga................
it is a type of mind control, men will do anything, go any where, sleep in the rain, travel across the country at the beck and call of the female. After the mairrage drug wears off and the bitching begins then the brain turns back on and the male comes out of the trance and he reallizes his leg is in the trap and the only way out is to chew off his leg.

Answer 3

this is in the LGBT category, so as a gay man always giving advice, I will give this a shot, First dont hate yourself, you might want to talk to a counselour someone with an open opinion. (could be you were married to early before dating and etc, you might be subconciously looking to see if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence) This is not you to blame, you need to really talk to someone who is open minded such as a psychiatrist, (theres a 100 reasons, such as husband not giving you attention, you have grown apart and etc...)

Answer 4

You said you are married. Are you happy? Are you attracted to your spouse? Are you only with your spouse out of habit, convenience? Look at your marriage first, then decide what to do. I know that their is nothing wrong with looking, but that can turn into more.

Answer 5

Yes, the basic principles of Christianity! If you're a christian, read the Bible. If not, polygamy in the Mormons and Islam may offer suggestions.

Answer 6

The others are right. You've got the right idea. Look, but don't touch. I don't think we humans are naturally monogamous, but because we thrive on money, pairing makes the most sense. And we do demand loyalty of our partners as they demand it from us. Just be wary of lines you may cross.

Answer 7

LOOK! GOD (swt) Almighty created you as a human. Therefore you shud think, behave and act tike a pious human. The thinking and logic is not of a pious people. You shud never think like that. Leave the men, they can benefit out of you and then leave. That's an animal behavor and not of human. You shud hate that attraction! ~ which is appreciated, used and acted in 'prostitute locality' only.

Answer 8

you don't want to stop because if you did you would and no you don't hate it you love it. stop lying to yourself and your husband and go for what you know. he might like the idea of another person in the bed room

Answer 9

Don't feel bad I feel the same way but there is something wrong with my marriage.

Answer 10

I think that even if your in a happy marriage you always like other people, like at least think their cute, while you are still devoted to your husband/wife