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2006-11-13 14:04:29 · 21 answers · asked by Ivan O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should call the police...unless you killed her. In that case, call a lawyer.
2006-11-13 14:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try to find a way to live with only one income. It is hard but if you can not work in her city and she can't find work in your city something will have to give. I take it she needs to work in another city to make ends meet and maybe you need to see what it is really costing you two in other ways than $$$. She could be tired after a week of work if it is far offer to meet half way at a hotel and do some cheap "dates" when you are together
2006-11-13 22:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by G L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ivan ... Ohhhh !!! : This is supposed to be a "marriage" is it ?
How can you two be a couple when you are apart ? Time to get on the telephone and book an appointment for a session with a competent marriage counsellor. I sincerely hope ... you two do not have any children ! Ivan; your wife is your partner. If I were you, I would tell her to get her a** back home ASAP !!! The idea of marriage is to grow together not apart.
2006-11-13 22:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have people round that only you and your wife trust. Do things that acquire community effort. For exp:Church, Community Sports and Family. If family is not of choice find a hobby.There's always the YMCA Big Brother sponsorship.
2006-11-13 22:17:56 · answer #4 · answered by keytothecity 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her nightly and talk on phone about each others events of the day. If both have access to a computer then you could e-mail her and play games on the computer together. You could hand write her a letter and sent it to her letting her know how special she is, that you love he with all your heart and miss her immensely. Good luck to you both as separation can be difficult but it truly does make the heart grow fonder.
2006-11-13 22:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Enjoy the time apart! My husband has worked out of town almost our whole marriage. I love it! We appreciate one another so much more when he has been away than we do when we are together full time. You have the perfect marriage! Embrace it! You get the benefit of the added pay check without the hassle of sharing your space with another person.
2006-11-13 22:08:32 · answer #6 · answered by freggs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Uh!! Did you know the job required this?? I suggest you down size and she or you live and work locally- that is too stressful and opens the door for way too too much temptation and no job is worth losing a marriage over- someone needs to quit or move- D
2006-11-13 22:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ivan, move to the same city that she works in. Belive absence does not make the heart grow fonder!!!! I know this for sure. Vietman Vet.
2006-11-13 22:10:06 · answer #8 · answered by pixie1 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Umm...call her at unexpected times and talk to her. ask her when she is coming home.....suggest you come up there a weekend and yall have a romantic weekend, or suggest yall move to the city where she works?
Good Luck! Pray to God about it and he will help you through.
2006-11-13 22:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by lucynlynsey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
either move to that city and work there or bring her home and you take on another job.
2006-11-13 22:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
call 911
and ask for an off duty wife
2006-11-13 22:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by Doctor_Ashley_proctologist 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋