So i split. now i cant find anyone to hang out with. im losing my mind trying to go to school and work but i dont feel like myself. Is this becuase im not being myself and just chillin and hanging out. I used to do stuff everyday. now all i want to do is sleep, stay at home go to church, and worry about how my life needs to be. help?
2006-11-13 13:57:22 · 3 answers · asked by Love Patience Peace and Kindness 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i went through the same **** its difficult. first let me clarrify one thing, those ppl are not your friends at least most of em aren't. drug addicts really just use ppl and will screw them in a heartbeat when it suits them. i know that from being both the person getting screwed and the person doing the screwing. drugs distort ppl's sense of right and wrong. so anyway now the real answer to your question. after i straightened my life up i was without friend cause they were all losers so i started going to NA and AA. i know it sound corny and believe me if you would have told me a year ago that it were gonna happen that way i would have told you you were insane. but none the less, here i am. its really alot of cool ppl just without the drugs, hell you might end up even gettin back in touch with some of those old ppl after they are sober i did. well thats all i got really and good luck, life really is alot easier away from all those ppl and all that ****. later
2006-11-13 14:10:05 · answer #1 · answered by skytzo ! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda know what you're going through. The first I gave up drugs it was because I failed a drug test and it was quit or lose my job. Life felt really boring even with the help of the drug counselors. I couldn't wait for my probation period to end so I could start smoing again.
The second time I quit was because the doctor told me I had a spot on my lungs and sent me in for some cancer tests. I was okay but it was a lot easier to quit the second time around. So maybe the motivational factors are part of how one views things. The first time the motivation was external and the second time was internal and it seemed to go a lot smoother.
The first time I stopped the counselors said to try to find some other groups of interest to fill the time but these people didnt seem as interesting as my "druggie" friends. But then again, maybe my friends seemed more interesting because I was really high most of the time.
I don't know if any of this helps, but I wish you all the best.
2006-11-13 22:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Nightcall 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't predict how your life is supposed to be. You can hope, but it's all left to destiny. You should be yourself and go wiith the flow. So what if you can't find friends. Don't try so hard. Start a plain old conversation woth someone. Or focus on work and school. Maybe just start talking to someone from church. They're good people you can trust. Don't try to force anything.
2006-11-13 22:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋