well I want to be friends with some new people about 50 to be exact but especially one guy and one girl that I want to know better I'm shy and this seems so difficult to me I hate even asking stuff to my own family so how could I possibly get talking to these kids and get to meet them ?? I don't want to embarrass myself or look stupid !! PLEASE HELP !!!!!
2006-11-13 13:50:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
go up say hi and say (do you want to be friends
2006-11-13 13:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kristen T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIrst remember to be yourself and do not be like someone else to impress them which could turn out not so good. There is a niche for everyone and don't be afraid to open about it and find yourself.
The best way for an introduction is to be friendly, try to strike up a conversation, and ask some questions. People love to talk about themselves. Even if you are a little shy try to be slightly more social and don't isolate yourself.
But don't worry everyone is in the same boat and don't pressure yourself. Friendships takes time. Just find the people you have fun with and feel comfortable with and the rest will come.
2006-11-13 14:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by bluestation30 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I used to be shy myself so I can help you out with this. All you need to know is that people wont think that you are wierd, or something like that, if you start a conversation. and chances are people are wanting to get to know you but you make it seem like you close yourself off from the world. open up a bit and take life a little less seriously and you will enjoy it a lot better
2006-11-13 13:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can seek every opportunity to get introduced, and once that part is done, you can continue your discussions on various topics like siblings, study interests, fav food items, fav color etc.
but to approach first and speak to a person, that too a stranger, you need a bit courage and boldness. it can be easily developed. dont be afraid. but it takes lots and lots of practice. So what if you dont do well in first few attempts? So what if you get a little embarrassed in front of others? They are all teaching you to improve, and to be sportive. So take it as life's lessons. and hey everybody has been in ur position one time or another
best of luck. oops sorry, it has nothing to do with luck.
so all the best.
2006-11-13 13:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by swtsvn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok no dont get inebriated, that female is nuts! LOL ok besides, you should save telling your self i can do it, and that i will do it. Dont wait to a lot longer to do it although. commence off putting forward hi, purely walking previous her. Then later purely introduce your self. Say " hi, im _____, how do u stick that landing so nicely?" Or inspite of, something it really is variety of a question. purely destroy the ice. and on a daily foundation say a touch extra. you receives there.. purely ask her out interior of two weeks.. or you wont get that braveness you want! solid success
2016-11-29 03:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by marconi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way. Now it is easier for me to introduce myself to people that I want to become friends with because I have practiced it before.
2006-11-13 13:53:10 · answer #6 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, i have that same problem right now also. I suggest to just be yourself, and dont worry about how other people react to you. Only then will you be able to chat with people without feeling weird or anything.
2006-11-13 13:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by GoateeGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up and introduce yourself. WE don't have time to be shy. Jump in on an activity!
2006-11-13 13:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to meet new people is to be honest, and tell them you like them, and would like them to be your friends. I have never heard anyone refuse someone that wanted to be friends. If they don't know, how can you expect them to accept you?
2006-11-13 13:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by persnicady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just step right up and introduce yourself. Be like I see you around quite often, my name is ..... Go along with what he says..be like what classes you taking...have you heard so and so about this teacher....w/e just play it by the ear
2006-11-13 13:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by Soccer Stud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about 50? did you just join a cult?
2006-11-13 13:51:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋