Today she said I hate you jessica simpson.(I don't even look like her or act like her) And the other day she said she hated me. I have never even met her. She just passes me in the hallway and says these things to me. i haven't made anyone mad at me or anything that anyone would hate me. How can i make her stop, can't really talk to her and tell her to stop. It is really scaring me.
2006-11-13 13:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I am in highschool and a freshman. Hopefully this is her last year. She is prob. a sophmore or junior (from her looks)
2006-11-13 13:48:35 · update #1
Tell her to leave you alone . The only reason people do that
is because they are jealous of you . Ask her what's up with her .
If all else fails tell the school counsler to call both of you
to her office to see what the problem is . This way if she
does start anything with you there is a record ofthe problem .
2006-11-13 13:48:52 · answer #1 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you really don't know her, then she is the one having a serious mental problem! Some people are acting miserable just for the sake of it, because they don't know how else to get attention. It's fact!
And you need to keep that fact in mind, so don't let it push you down.
Most likely, she has no reason why she picked you (and you might not be the only one she does this to). See if you can find out if she has more "targets" and form a pact.
Ignoring it will not stop her, she needs an "anti-dose" that will make her respect you. If you find the courage, standing right in front of her with both your hands on your hips and your feet slightly apart, you say with a loud (but not screaming) voice: "Girl, I don't know what your problem is, but I advice you to leave me alone" Don't wait for her reply, but turn your back and walk away, don't run, and don't look back.
You also need to share this problem with a trusted friend. Don't let the friend solve the problem by talking to her. Just ask the friend to support you morally, and to be there for you right after you confronted the freak.
Sending you a hug
Believe in yourself!
2006-11-13 21:56:43 · answer #2 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she isn't acting agressive or threatening to hurt you then just aggree with here and act like you like it.
Smile, like she is an old friend and act like you appreciate the attention.
She will get tired of it or start talking to you like a "person"!
Maybe shell tell you why she is doing, what it is that she'd doing or start to ask you questions.
Anyway, you won't have any more problems if she thinks that her atitude won't make you feel bad!
Good Luck!
2006-11-13 22:45:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you confront her and ask her what her problem is nicely? Maybe she herd something about you or maybe there's something else wrong. Did you possibly say something to her unknowingly to offend her? Maybe
she's seen you before and you don't remember. Something may have been said she over herd and she took offense. If you feel comfortable talk to her if she bites your head off then I'd really be nervous cause maybe she's a pshyco....
2006-11-13 21:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by robbie347 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jealousy. Maybe a lot of the boys in school tell others that they think you're hot. Maybe even a guy she likes, or maybe her boyfriend.
It isn't your fault what the boys might think about you, but girls tend to put the blame on the girl when this kind of thing happens.
2006-11-13 21:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's being nasty cause she's jealous. A girl did this to me in high school. And it's cause she was jealous that she didnt look like me. I never knew her, had never spoken with her or about her and she terrorized me for 2 years.
Ignore her. Or laugh at her. If she threatens you, kick her in the throat.
2006-11-13 21:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time, pass her a folded up piece of paper that reads; "Be warned, I've contacted a prosecuting attorney and if you harass me again I will press charges."
2006-11-13 21:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by mebbe_sew_mebbe_knot 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
maybe she wants to be your friend..but that is the only way she can express herself....why don't u say i hate u too ...whoever she looks like...
eg..i hate you to jessica biel?
2006-11-13 21:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by TrackStar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the asylum asap! she sounds like a mental case.
2006-11-13 21:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say "what's your problem, you don't even know me how can you hate me?" and if that doesn't work tell someone that she is bugging you
2006-11-13 21:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Davy D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋