2006-11-13 13:28:02 · 22 answers · asked by sara_castillow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Time for some 'self' time. Go hang out with your girlfriends, family & meet new people! The world won't stop revolving, it feels bad now, but it will pass. :)
2006-11-13 13:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are gonna feel like that for a while, my boyfriend abandoned me a month ago for some bum chick but that's life! never under-estimate anyone you are gonna find someone just give yourself sometime you might find out that you don't need a boyfriend at all. Focus on yourself once you feelings and heart is all patched up then try the dating scene again in the mean time try to forgive and forget hun :)
2006-11-13 21:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. If he broke up with you, it is history now. Move on and find someone else. You do have some one. You are still young and there are more and better guys out there for you.
2006-11-13 21:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you, I have been in the same place (but it was my husband that left me with our 4 kids) It only feels like the end of the world. Cry alot, get it all out of your system, eat a buttload of chocolate (or whatever your comfort food is) take a week to wallow in self pity, then move on.
It is OK to morn your loss, just do not let it rule your life.
2006-11-13 21:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, look at it this way-- he broke up with you for no reason. So, you didn't have anyone even when you had someone. He was only a ghost, he wasn't really involved so you were already alone.
You will survive. It is those alone times when you learn more about yourself and what you want and it helps you know what you want in your next relationship.
2006-11-13 21:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just remember even though you may feel like this you will always have love and support from ya friends and family believe me i know it hurts like hell to have this happen but life goes on when me and my last partner broke up she moved away and i stayed here it was hard for a while but im now happily married SO ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU IS HANG IN THERE YOULL FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL GIVE YOU THE RESPECT YOU DESERVE
2006-11-13 21:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by mustang_rws 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him and find out why he broke up with you. Also try to notice that its a good thing that you are not with him anymore if he did it for no apparent reason, people like that aren't worth making friends with.
2006-11-13 21:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by red_of_the_lost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't base YOUR self worth on whether or not you have a boyfriend. Secondly, if he broke up with you for no reason...(and I suspect it was just no GOOD reason)...he isn't worth grieving over. You just feel awful and he goes on feeling just fine. You end up punishing yourself for his actions. Things WILL get better.
2006-11-13 21:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same exact thing happened to me today. I feel the same way. man life sucks. but it will get better for both of us if we keep a positive attitude. although i want to go crazy right now! I GUESS BEST OF LUCK FOR BOTH OF USâ¥
2006-11-13 21:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥la chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realize that having someone does not complete you. Get some therapy so you'll feel better about yourself.
2006-11-13 21:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋