i'm very stressed out. i have band practice after school til' 4, cheer @ 6 til" 7:30 and its very intense. i only have 2 hours everyday to do homework, study, and work on projects.(and phone time) and when i get home from cheer practice i get in the shower and go to bed. it's been stressing me out. then i have a lazy, trflien, annoying boyfriend who doesn't help. whaty should i do to take some stress off of my back??????
2006-11-13 13:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by zsimone 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
Something has to give, you can't do it all.
2006-11-13 13:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you resent your boyfriend so much as to call him Lazy Trflien and annoying then obviously you should dump him. I'd suggest waiting before getting a new BF until you have some more time to devote to the relationship though. Really if you want a BF to remove work from your plate you are looking at relationships the wrong way. At the end of the day no matter how supportive your mate is they will still be work. Why not try being happy with yourself first. If you need to you could also drop either band or cheerleader pratice too, it's your life you've got to enjoy it and live it for yourself. Remember unless your happy what's the point.
2006-11-13 13:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a very busy person...cut out some of that extra curricular activities and concentrate on homework, study and projects...How do you cheer and play in the band...You have a lot of energy....you need timeout for ZSIMONE....you need quality time for yourself...go get your hair done , nails and toes done ..anyone would be stressed out with a schedule like that...unwind, relax, if you don't, your body will shutdown from exhaustion. What can your boyfriend do? he can't go to band 4 u, he can't cheer 4 u, but he could help you study, help with homework and the projects, have you asked him...ask for his help!!! Get him involved. He isn't lazy, or trifling...he is tired of watching you do everything by yourself, sorry honey...he's bored. Don't lose him, he is wondering where he fits, because u r sooooooooooooooo busy....
2006-11-13 15:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by wndybcktt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is lazy, annoying and doesn't support you, why are you still dating him? DUMP HIM. Then, scale back on some of your activities. It may not seem this way, but school is actually the most important part of school. If you find that you can't handle both band AND cheer, you might want to consider dropping one. Not having enough time to study and relax will have a serious effect on you grades AND your health. Speaking from experience, I know how hard it is to choose between two activites that you love. But, if doing both is causing you to burn out, then one of them needs to go. Talk to your parents, friends, and/or teachers for more advice, because I'm sure they understand your situation better than someone reading your question online does.
2006-11-13 13:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Watermelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter is also over stressed with activities and life in general she is also a student. She makes a list, when you are thinking of it in your mind it is overwhelming, but put on paper it is not so bad. and mark it off as you go, the feeling of getting something accomplished is a good feeling. As far as that boyfriend is concerned, honey, do it yourself do not depend on a man!! Be sure and schedule those hours and stick to it no matter what. Some people may be a little hurt by the schedule(phone buddies,boyfriends, ect...) just be realistic in your goals and remember after all tommorrow is another day.
2006-11-13 13:39:24 · answer #5 · answered by Toni S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breathe!!!!
Make a list and schedule everything you have to get done!
This way you got time planned for everything and nothing is being left undone!
Don't be too rigid about it though, modify as you go but know you planned! Planning takes a bit of the stress away! And know that how ever it turns out, it'll be over soon and a distant memory in a few year! i.e. it won't kill you!
2006-11-13 13:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by Cruella DeVil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the boyfriend and cut out phone time. It'll save you at least another hour.
2006-11-13 14:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the lazy, annoying boyfriend. Focus on your other activities and school.
2006-11-13 13:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by ruthie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-13 15:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the boyfriend. you will lose a lot of stress then.
2006-11-13 14:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by catwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-14 04:05:19 · answer #11 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋