If you know you're not gay, but can't stop looking at guys and wanting to see more, what do you do?

Question

I know I like girls cause I go out on dates and stuff and like to see them naked and want to have sex with them, but also when I see a very muscley guy or something I want to see him naked. Or other things...

How do I stop this? What can I do to get over it and just stop thinking those things?

Answer 1

hey bro, i feel ya man,

I used to be attracted to guys too, actually i was gay and i didnt like girls at all, but yeah so i used to look at guys, just to compare them with me and such,

but God changed all that, i accepted Jesus in my heart, and i asked him to take away the same sex attraction, and He did! now im straight and dont fantisize about guys anymore!

anyway God bless bro and blessings be with you :)

Answer 2

try getting a magazine or looking up on the web picture of them. "adult" pics. and se what happens. It could just be envy or jealously. Next time you go to the mall or a public place watch the girls. We are always checking out other girls. Its because we are comparing our selves to them. We are judging them basically.

If you look at these pics of guys and get arroused, well. That still doesnt even prove u are gay. they say all guys have "gay thoughts" you are just curious. It doesnt mean u want to have sex with guys or anything like that. dont worry about it.

I'm sure if after looking at these pictures you still cant decied, you'll be able to find another guy who is curious too. (still, doesnt mean ur gay) and try to see if you can get urself to kiss or make out with him. If you can't then ur most likely straight.

Dont let these feelings make u feel different or weird or abnormal.

good luck

Answer 3

You are Bi sexual. ON the Kinsey scale we are sexually rated from 1-10. One being straight and 10 being gay but most people fall between on this scale. You may be a 5 or a six. So don't worry about it. Just go have sex with everyone whooopie!

Answer 4

It sounds to me like you just have to come to terms with yourself. There's nothing wrong with wanting to see or experiment with naked men. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual. It is important you strip away all superficial and unrealistic prejudices and allow the person you are meant to be to blossom. If you keep denying one part of yourself, you will never truly be fulfilled. And don't listen to what society says. They're all jerks anyway ;)

Answer 5

you are probably bi, whether you want to admit it or not. The best way to get those thoughts out of your head is to avoid situations where you may be tempted to stare at a guy. or you can hang around less attractive men so you won't want to see them naked.

Answer 6

Be at peace. Many men and women are attracted to both persons from the opposite sex, and their own gender too. In fact modern research shows that the majority of human beings are bi-sexual to one degree or another. Just be sure to base all of your relationships one the same principles: honesty, caring and fidelity.

Answer 7

u could be bi, but u have to know the reason behind it, if u c a shrink u can open up to him about it and mabe u could get to know ur self, good luck

Answer 8

Maybe you are bisexual OR maybe you just are jealous of some guys...don´t worry, just live your life the way it turns out!!

Answer 9

baby lets face it you might be bisexual. you wont be able to stop unless you know the reason for your feelings and i just told you. maby you might want to try a guy out. it'll be your secret.

Answer 10

You are lying to yourself. You will realize one day that you are really gay.