my best friends forgot my birthday. should i forgive them. i mean they r fun to be with but it hurts when ur best friends dont wish u happy birthday and ppl who mighht not even know wish u happy birthday
2006-11-13 13:14:43 · 13 answers · asked by mdmel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It happens. It sucks, but it happens. My mom forgot my birthday one year. She had a lot going on and I cried almost all day and made it a point to call her on her birthday that year just so she knew I didn't forget... Your friend I'm sure feels awful... I'd forgive... but that's just me
2006-11-13 13:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by reeba202 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.... Happy Birthday!
Maybe they didn't realize it meant so much to you to be noticed for getting older. Some people look at Birthdays as just another day!
Best Wishes
2006-11-13 21:16:44 · answer #2 · answered by garden_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is sad, if it is your best friend, then how can they forget? That would be weird though to remind them, then maybe you could forget about their birthdays and when they ask, maybe you can ask them, "Did you remember my birthday?" In a way, that is kind of cruel, but maybe your friends really forgot your birthday because they are too busy with life, school, work, and all. Yet, you are still thinking, "How could they forget though?"
2006-11-13 21:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and Forget
Don't Get Your Self So Work Up About It!
If they are true friends keep them but if they are not good friends forget them!
Happy Birthday! :) :) :) :)
2006-11-13 21:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off.. happy birthday... um well they may have forgotten.. and well we're all human.. we sometimes make mistakes... if they somehow realize that they forgot, and they somehow make it up to you.. and make you feel better.. then yeah forgive them.. actually you should forgive them eventually anyways.. its not really good to hold a grudge, cuz if you ditch them now, you may find that you might need them later in your life. You never know if they'll be there when you need them most. Stick together and you'll make life easier...
2006-11-13 21:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely forgive them. Yes, it hurts, but holding a grudge against your best friends will hurt even more.
2006-11-13 21:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by Erika S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is fine to not know but if you forget your best friends birhtday is not right. But if you did not remind them then what do you expect everyone forgets.
2006-11-13 21:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget her birthday if she doesnt say sorry!
2006-11-13 21:16:48 · answer #8 · answered by くる. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes forgive them. im sure it will never happen again.
2006-11-13 21:29:38 · answer #9 · answered by Morgasmn! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should forgive them cuz they are your friends...right?!
2006-11-13 21:31:04 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋