Just a general discussion. I have seen one of my frnd having affairs with two girls and he says that he is in true luv with both girls and can't leave neone of those. I think both girls are unaware of the fact that guy is having one more affair. As I know him, I think he is really serious with both girls and i was never a flirt. Let me know ur views on this...please reply
2006-11-13 13:09:04 · 13 answers · asked by vivek_ya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, some guys are really good players. Once they get what they want, they will bounce.
2006-11-13 13:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love" or being "IN LOVE" is really subjective. However "True LOVE" conjures up commitment. It is a given, when you have true love there will be no question of choice.
One would be ultimately drawn to be committed to the one your emotions are the strongest. You can love more than one, lust for more than one. If there is a question then one is either a playa or a player in denial, just greedy or not mature enough to tell the difference.
Being in denial and playing with the emotions of two other people (male or female) eventually you will loose. For one you divide your emotions/desires and not get the FULL benefit of either.
If one is a honest, compassionate , considerate person and not into cheating then deeply evaluate both, tell both of the internal conflict and decide.
2006-11-13 13:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by GERALD S. MCSEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really don't know what he wants, if he needs to girls just to feel like he is in love then he needs help. It is possible to be in love with two people at the same time but you can only have one true love that is actually meant to be.
2006-11-13 13:12:09 · answer #3 · answered by EMTGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am sorry to say I think so because just think about it we all know what we want in a person and if we talk to two people and they both have what we wont I think it is easy to fall in love with that person but no it is not right to date both of them at the same time you need to pick one
2006-11-13 13:14:08 · answer #4 · answered by joestar909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loves not circumstances fool thou rosy lips and cheeks, Time interior thy bending sickel compas come, Love alters not merely bref hours and week yet bears it even to the sting of dooms. I dont think of a individual could nicely be in love with 2 adult males ITS not love then
2016-10-17 06:06:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Theres no such thing. He may think he loves them both but if that was so then he wouldnt hurt them by cheating on them. It just not possible. If your turly in love you dont want to hurt the person but if you do and know you are then you dont really love either of them.
2006-11-13 13:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ultra Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you/he,s going to lose both of them., chicks dont play that game!> very well .or their soaking up his cash $. when his pockets are empty the sharks will swim away quickly. lessons learned? tell him he's fooling himself in the long run give him two weeks he will be wandering what happend . with a dumb look on his face. my husband aggrees.
2006-11-13 13:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he can be in true love with both of them, because I think part of love in a romantic relationship is commitment.
2006-11-13 13:12:26 · answer #8 · answered by Nathan W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he is having his cake and eat it too, If he had another girl he would probably says he lives all three...When you totally commit to someone, there is not room for anyone else. Oh course that is unheard of these days........
2006-11-13 14:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes... a guy can really make love to two women at one time
2006-11-13 13:12:17 · answer #10 · answered by mrbubbachowpuss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋