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my daughter is 18 weeks pregnant and has been informed of complicatins i'm her mother and not in same state. any help is appreciated.

2006-11-13 12:50:16 · 10 answers · asked by Donna B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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In 1994, the unabashedly pro-choice Glamour magazine surveyed some 3,000 women who had undergone abortions. Overwhelmingly, respondents said that if prior to the procedure they had had any idea of how deeply they would come to regret it, they would have never gone through with it.

from a nurses perspective,,,,,,,this is what they would do to your grandchild,,,,

"I stood at the doctor’s side and watched him perform a partial-birth abortion on a woman who was six months pregnant. The baby’s heartbeat was clearly visible on the ultrasound screen. The doctor delivered the baby’s body and arms, everything but his little head. The baby’s body was moving his little fingers were clasping together. He was kicking his feet. The doctor took a pair of scissors and inserted them into the back of the baby’s head, and the baby’s arms jerked out in a flinch, a startle reaction, like a baby does when he thinks that he might fall. Then the doctor opened the scissors up. Then he stuck the high-powered suction tube into the hole and sucked the baby’s brains out. Now the baby was completely limp. I never went back to the clinic. But I am still haunted by the face of that little boy. It was the most perfect, angelic face I have ever seen."

Dont beleive this is how they do it?, sound like something out of a science fiction movie?,... look it up. sadly this is true.....

Dont let your daughter do it,... I know you are freaking out but she would never forgive herself or forget this,...Dont let this haunt her for the rest of her life.

2006-11-13 13:26:40 · answer #1 · answered by Pro_Dog_Trainer 3 · 1 1

Your dauhter needs to get over it and be a woman and eal with this not run off and murder her baby what is exactly what she is doing.

At 18 weeks a baby is formed, you can tell what sex it is and it kicks. My cousins ex GF was 16 with a disease that can kill her and she got pregnant due to BC failing, she new thier was a high risk she could die but she did not let that stop her from keeping the baby. At 30 weeks she went into labor and her daughter spent 4 weeks in the NICU but both mom and daughter were fine.

Having a mother as a GYN I can tell you right now that sometimes doctors say their will be complications but everything ends up being fine. My own mother was told in her last two pregnancies she would have complications, one being blood clotting but that did not stop her from having me or my little sister and surpise surprise my mother had no complications, hell they told my mother my little sister was deformed and she is perfectly fine.

The fact that every mother knows is that thier are always goign to be a chance of complications weather you be told at 10 weeks of pregnancy, 25 weeks or right when your about to give birth, they get over it because they love thier baby. If your daughter could not handle the chance of complications she should have never of got pregnant. 18 weeks is pure murder , at 18 weeks it is actually possible for a baby to survive, the chances are very low but it is actually possible.

If your daughter goes threw with this she is selfish and is too immature to have a child, I was 16 when I got pregnant and threwout my whole pregnancy I was so worried about complications but that did not make me run to a clinic and cry for a moron doctor to kill my baby. You need to slap your daughter and tell her to be a woman and deal with this.

2006-11-13 13:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by Diamonds_Glow 4 · 0 0

I can't answer your question about Illnois abortion laws, but if your daughter has "complications," she needs to see an ob/gyn specializing in high risk pregnancies, not an abortionist. Many doctors will advise a woman to abort because they are afraid of being sued if they do not. Your daughter needs to find a doctor who cares about both her and her baby. You can find one here: http://www.aaplog.org/physearch.htm

At eighteen weeks, your daughter's baby looks and acts like a tiny newborn. She can suck her thumb, grasp an object placed in her palm, get the hiccups, smile and frown, sleep and awaken, swim in the womb, and hear her mommy's heartbeat and voice. She can feel pain. Your daughter is probably beginning to feel her moving. Remember, this is your grandbaby whose life is at stake. If she has a medical problem, she deserves love and protection, not death. There are waiting lists of people who would like to adopt babies with special needs.

Here is some information you and your daughter should see:

Be Not Afraid: An Outreach to Parents Who Have Received a Difficult Prenatal Diagnosis:

http://benotafraid.net

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures_2.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html

Is Abortion Ever Necessary to Save the Life of the Mother?
http://www.all.org/article.php?id=10682
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/motherslife.html

2006-11-14 05:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

The doctor would discuss that with her. He would tell her if he recommends that or not. 18 weeks is a little far along though. The baby is formed. But I dont know about the law with complications. That is why I say the DR should have discussed it.

2006-11-13 12:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by Blondi 6 · 0 1

she was gonna keep her baby until she found out it wasnt gonna be perfect? That doesnt sound right. At 18 weeks the baby is formed and deserves a chance. Let God do His will with this child.

As to the answer to your question its up to 24 weeks. This web site has all the info you'll need..God bless

2006-11-13 13:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2 1

I would have to tell you that you all should be thinking of this unborn child as an actual life! a human bein. no matter what month she is in.. that child doesn't get the choice and if she has an abortion, she is just murdering someone. Someone told me to have an abortion. but I dont believe in that. now i have an amazing 1 year old son! he is my whole world. perfect in every way. if u kill your child. you are missing an opportunity of a lifetime!!!!! there are soo many people willing to adopt!!!! have that child please!!!

2006-11-13 13:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by mercy me 4 · 2 0

She needs to talk to her doctor about the "complicatins". Her doctor should be able to guide her.

2006-11-13 12:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

you will have to no longer need to inform father and mother, as that may purpose riffs within the household and all it will possibly do is purpose clash if father and mother have a differing of critiques in this, the regulation of no longer having parental consent fairly is for shielding those women who've father and mother that could drive their kids to head by way of childbirth, both adoption or preserving, each is compelled childbirth if the daughter doesnt wish to head by way of with it,that's abusing her frame in opposition to her desires, additionally the father and mother who don't seem to be supportive of all situations and predicament she makes a decision and kicks her out or disowns her, so that you will have to no longer need to inform the father and mother should you dont consider its not obligatory. Most men and women who're in opposition to abortion, its no longer approximately the regulation and what womens lifestyles, its approximately the fetus most effective, and their emotional perspective,and despite the fact that the girl was once in a lifestyles threatening predicament, fetus has headaches so much are nonetheless in opposition to it, this means that killing the mummy and in addition the fetus, so much professional-lifestyles fairly dont recognize ample knowledge of the disorders in being pregnant and oftentimes wherein abortions are wanted, they base all pregnancies on their occasions and men and women round them, and dont consider of different situations wherein ladies could want one, theres hundreds of thousands of causes why ladies get an abortion, it isn't for amusing it isn't some thing that they wish. adoption isnt continually the choice both, mainly for ladies who're having headaches with the being pregnant and they'll die or the fetus will die itself or be a stillborn, how can they undertake if they'll die & the fetus too or the fetus dies besides? men and women consider adoption is one of these pleasant choice for each person find it irresistible fixes the whole thing that is doesnt simply maintains the road for extra kids in foster care or looking ahead to a household which so much kids in no way discover adoptive father and mother as they're looking ahead to too lengthy, and there may be extra toddlers being followed than men and women inclined to undertake so consider of the overflowing in those locations of youngsters already, men and women who continually say "decide on adoption" dont fairly consider approximately it critically, they have got in no way performed it themselves or are simply uneducated approximately adoption, they consider its all rainbows and smiles while its no longer the case.

2016-09-01 12:05:43 · answer #8 · answered by fullington 4 · 0 0

WHAT KIND OF COMPLICATIONS IS SHE HAVING? IS SHE SURE THAT THIS IS WHAT SHE WANTS? I'M SURE SHE CAN FEEL HER BABY MOVE INSIDE HER AND KICK, ETC. CAN SHE STILL GO THRU WITH THE ABORTION KNOWING THAT SHE HAS ''LIFE'' INSIDE HER? SPEAKING FROM PERSONAL EXPERIANCE, HAVING AN ABORTION IS ONE OF THE MOST TERRIABLE THINGS YOU COULD LET YOU'R DAUGHTER GO THRU, BUT IF SHE CAN LIVE WITH HERSELF, KNOWING THAT SHE KILLED A ''LIFE'' MORE POWER TO HER! I CAN'T AND WILL NOT HELP YOU FIND AN ABORTION CLINIC, BECAUSE IT IS MURDER AND THAT BABY DESERVES TO LIVE AND NOT BE THROWN INTO A TRASH CAN!!!

2006-11-13 16:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly girl 1 · 0 1

i believe the standard law is under 4 months which comes to 16 weeks. she may be past that point. she should definitely talk to her doctor. because she may be running out of time.

2006-11-13 13:09:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 5 · 0 1

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