I just get confused if I am gay or i fit is just my hormones!!! Help!!
2006-11-13 12:18:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There's no need to declare yourself anything right now. In a year or two, you will know if you are or not gay.
Your attraction may just be envy of guys who have matured physically ahead of you, or perhaps what you want to be That doesn't make you gay, it makes you human.
Read up on it if it still nags at you. Ask more questions. Talk to someone you TRUST.
2006-11-13 12:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I'd guess you are gay, unless you are more sexually attracted to girls than to boys. Don't believe the people that tell you it's a sin to be gay. Don't believe the people that tell you that you're too young to know. Funny, but no one ever tells anyone they're too young to know if they're heterosexual or not.
You're not absolutely sure yet, and that's fine. It could be that at some point you decide you have no romantic or sexual attraction to men, and that's OK too. But I wouldn't bet on it. Just don't feel pressured to have sex with anyone at your age. Just chill out for now. There's no rush.
2006-11-13 20:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Angry Gay Man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First let me start off by saying that there is a difference between being attracted to guys and being aroused by guys. If you happen to be gay then so be it. If you happen to be straight then so be it. If you happen to like both male and female eventually then so be it. Don't judge yourself at the moment. I suggest you try everything because you really don't know what you truly like unless you have tried it. After dating a guy you may see that it sux (no pun intended) and the same fore dating females. Only you will know what you like. Give yourself time to figure out what you really want.
2006-11-13 21:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Firebreather 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Whoaaa.... hold up there, cowboy.... First of all, you are at a very fluid point of your life right now. Try not to get hung up on the lables of gay/straight/bi. If you try too hard to label yourself, you might end up closing yourself off to other possibilities. I really don't think hormones can influence sexual orientation -- if you are attracted, that's one thing. If you're just plain horny & you don't care about the rest of what might come with a same-sex relationship, you might want to ask yourself more questions. No matter what turns out to be, YOU ARE OK. And please, if you're going to try anything, be safe about it. There's a lot of disease out there, & a lot of people (male AND female) who are not afraid to hurt others for their own gain. God loves you more than you'll ever imagine, & understands you more than you understand yourself...and He thinks you rock ;~)
2006-11-13 20:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by Blooming Sufi 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted exclusively to guys then you are gay, hormones would push you in the direction you want to go, not decide the direction.
2006-11-13 20:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That will take lots of time to tell. I was like that all my life. Only you can say. An answer for that question is one of the very few which you will not find here.
2006-11-13 20:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay
2006-11-13 20:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by mister 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Time will tell. You go through a lot of changes at your age. Just be you. You will know who you are attracted to in time.
2006-11-13 21:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by gc27858 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to know right now. It might mean you're gay or it might mean nothing.
It's good you have recognized the feelings but please wait before you act on it. See if things change in a year or so, if they do not change, then you know you might be gay.
2006-11-13 20:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by Ronald J 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
No! All men have sexual desires for other men at some point of your life. this doesn't necessarily mean that your gay or even bi.
2006-11-13 20:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋