She's been acting really weird lately. I found a box for a pregnancy test in the rubbish but she hasn't said anything to me about it. Also, I've noticed that the mere mention of some foods obviously makes her nauseous, even though she tries to hide it.The weird thing is, she hasn't mentioned anything about this to me. I don't understand why because I wouldn't have a problem with it at all. Any idea why she might be acting like this? Or, could it be something else...perhaps she's not pregnant at all. That's just what it seems like to me. I don't want to just say it to her in case i'm jumping to conclusions. Any thoughts??
2006-11-13 11:44:10 · 23 answers · asked by ben m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I was reading some of your past questions. You mentioned a job offer that was really great. Did you decide on what you are going to do? Did you two have a fight over it? Hopefully she didn't trap you if she is pregnant and that will decide what your hold for your future. If she is pregnant and trapped you, then she is a selfish little thing and you need to move on and send her child support if you are the daddy. Now then, if you two planned this then wonderful for you, but remember, love doesn't get that baby diapers, food and clothing. I am just speculating by what you have offered. If you have a phenominal job offer, take it and her(or them if it applies) with you. I am sure her job is portable to any state. Good luck.
2006-11-13 12:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by hazeleyedbeauty1967 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you found the pregnancy test and then decided she has been acting weirdly. As she is your fiancee, she may be trying to lose weight for the wedding - hence, the avoidance of food. Or, she thought she was pregnant based on said nausea, but isn't. Sometimes it is just nausea :) If you are prepared for marriage, you should be prepared to ask her about it without it being a huge deal. She may be waiting to tell you until she retests or sees a doctor to confirm (especially since you didn't find the actual pregnancy test). Jumping to conclusions about pregnancy has been the plot of far too many sitcoms - chill out and simply ask.
2006-11-13 11:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is that maybe you should just flat out ask her, tell her that you found the pregnancy test box in the rubbish as you say and that you wanted to know. don't be rude about it, tell her that you have noticed that when you mention certain foods that you see her turn green, figuratively speaking. also tell her that you were just wondering. let her know that you are happy whatever the outcome may be. if she gets mad then just leave it alone. jumping back at her will only make matters worse. if she wants you to know then she will tell you. like others have said she may be waiting until she knows for sure. if you ask her and she doesn't respond then like i said leave it alone do not ound her about it the next day or later on that evening or day. she will tell you in her own way, hae ya'll discussed kids in ya'lls future? she maybe scared to tell you, she may think that you do not want to have one yet. you just need to discuss this situation with her......i hope all turns out well in the end, holly please keep me posted if you can and don't think it is too weird. holly
2006-11-13 12:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Holly D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude...Take a breath...
You said FIANCE..........
That means you should be able to talk about whatever!!
This is one of those subjects that needs to be met
straight on...just go to her and ask, What's up??
She might feel like you would be disappointed if she has lost a baby and doesn't want to deal with it on top of what she's already going through...Or thought she was and took the test and she isn't and is disappointed. Time for a talk and a hug.
Your not ready to say it to her cause your just plain scared.
She won't think your jumping to conclusions, she'll think you care,
cause you took the time to get to the point about something so important.
2006-11-13 11:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by J B W 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There could be many reasons, for one the test could be negative and she is kind of upset about it, or she could be scared of how you may react have you two discussed children? If that's not it maybe she is planning something nice like a home cooked candle light dinner to tell you. If you don't hear anything within a week talk to her about it. Don't drive yourself nuts over it though. Good Luck
2006-11-13 11:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Jumping to conclusions"? And you found a "home pregnancy box" in the trash? I don't think anyone would blame you for wondering.
Communication is a big part of any relationship, talk to her. Maybe she doesn't know how you feel and doesn't know how to bring it up. Since you are already engaged you are obviously in a loving and committed relationship. Talk to her.
Best of luck.
2006-11-13 11:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might think the baby's daddy might not be you?
Maybe she thinks you'll want her to have an abortion, or dump her because of it. Confront her now, the more this lingers,...well, the BIGGER the problem will get.
She might not be pregnant, something could be bothering her.
2006-11-13 11:47:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are that much of a detective have you noticed if her period has come lately. Really if you two are having sex there is no reason why this shouldn't be discussed between the two of you.
2006-11-13 11:48:32 · answer #8 · answered by JS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS the best! Just come out and ask her. Say, I happen to see the preg test in the trash. Are we expecting? She may just be trying to wrap her brain around it, especially if it was not planned, before she brings you into it.
2006-11-13 11:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Lori 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thoughts...
#1. The baby isn't yours.
or
#2. She's embarassed to be unmarried and preggo.
or
#3. She's not pregnant.
Why not just ask her what's going on.
2006-11-13 11:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋