2006-11-13 11:38:59 · 8 answers · asked by lollipopgirl1220 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It may be the oldest cliche there is, but the best thing to do is laugh. You need to laugh at the rumours (as hurtful and cruel that they are). You know that what is being said is not true, and so do the people who care about you. Whatever anyone else thinks is irrelevant.
Think of it in this way, their lives are so pathetic that in order to amuse themselves they need to spread untrue and unfounded gossip about someone. Laugh at their stupidity and immaturity, you've got better things to do than let those losers get you down. If they have nothing better in their lives than to gossip, let them have their 15 seconds in the spotlight - it's them who will lose out in the end. Nobody wants to be around someone who cant keep a secret or who just makes stuff up for the fun of it.
I dont know if your in highschool, but I will assume that you are (gossip is ripe in schools). Just remember that these are the best years of their life, they may be cool and popular now but in ten years, nobody cares who they are and chances are they'll be pregnant and alone, or standing in line at the dole office.
Keep your head up. Laugh at the stupidity of it all and remember, it's what you think of yourself that really matters.
2006-11-13 11:53:02 · answer #1 · answered by roman_goddess_venus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing but live your life. Rumors will be going around about you until well after you are dead and buried. So why focus on them? You know they are rumors so let it go. Easier said then done but you can't make people see the truth if they don't want to. And ask yourself why you care? Are these people of some importance in your life? Do they feed or clothe you? If the answer is no to any of these then you need to quit worrying about what others say about you. It's not what people call you but what you answer to, remember that and live well. Good luck!
2006-11-13 11:42:53 · answer #2 · answered by Lovemykids 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the source! Find how who started it and let them have it!! If you consider these people friends, you obviously found out the hard way that they are not and I am sorry for you going through it. Be strong, stand up for your convictions. You don't need people in your life like that I hope it works out. God Bless!!
2006-11-13 11:41:45 · answer #3 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if theyer tru just admit the truth bc ppl like to talk about lies and secrets but if its out in the open then itll blow over fast. if theyre not tru just ignor ignore ignore
2006-11-13 11:50:40 · answer #4 · answered by lolypop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. if it isnt true dont act like it bothers you. if you flip out they will more likely think its true. they are probably jealous or sick of their own lives. remember who you are, screw everyone else who judge's/hurts you
2006-11-13 11:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by girlladyperson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy it .... this means they can't stop thinkin about you! ps send a pic to bucsfan1la@ the y and let me see?
2006-11-13 11:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont care if they arent true then tell them that, if they don't beleive you then forget them.
2006-11-13 11:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it
2006-11-13 11:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋