2006-11-13 11:19:52 · 22 answers · asked by Emily 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No it is not a problem. Sex is the most fun thing in the world i wishmore people would like it. im in 6th grade and i've had sex atleast 30 times already since the beginning of the school year.
2006-11-16 13:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 8⤋
I don't believe that young kids are ready for the intimacy of sex...niether at the phsycological or at the physical level.
How can a 14 or 15 year old actually enjoy sex? A boy that age certainly doesn't know what he is doing, so it is unlikely a young girl will achieve physical satisfaction from the act.
Young kids should be thinking about their future, what they want, where they want to go and what they imagine their life will be like when they are young adults.
I think that people will have the whole lives to have sex...even if you have sex for the first time at 20, that's at MINIMUM 40 more years of sex. That seems like enough, doesn't it?
2006-11-13 19:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by seaelen 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Yes
Wait till your married. There is no need for "young kids" to have sex. And plus, you dont know you get pregnant or contract an std till it happens, and then it's too late. You will just want to abort the baby and be all dramatic and scared because your 15 and pregnant and dont want to tell your parents because your too irresponsible and immature to take responsibility for your actions.
Wake up.
2006-11-14 06:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Little Miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, MAJOR problem.
They:
-cannot handle the responsibility of sex
-they feel guilty that they have gone against their own moral ideals
-they are afraid of getting caught so they take major chances in regard to pregnancy and STDs
-they are more concerned with feeling good than they are concerned with the feelings of their partner (especially guys)
-the girls are convinced that if they give sex they'll get love in return (NOT TRUE)
-the guys are willing to say I love you to get sex (NOT TRUE)
-they are convinced that there is safe sex (NOT TRUE even with "protection")
-they are not mature enough emotionally, mentally, psychologically, spiritually, and of course, financially to handle the consequences of a possible pregnancy
-if the girl DOES get pregnant, she's stuck, he runs
-if pregnancy occurs, education stops and POVERTY is inevitable
PLUS
-ask the parents if its OK
-ask the girls that have gotten pregnant after "safe" sex what their response is to having to raise a baby
-look at the destruction (emotional, psychological, etc) that occurs when the sex partners break up (i.e. the guy has got what he wants, he doesn't need the girl)
YES, IT'S A PROBLEM!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 19:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by snddupree 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Depends how young the kid its. And of course how mature the he or she is and what are his or her views on life. I think that having sex should be a personal decision, you can give advice to someone but ultimately it should be his or her decision and what they believe is right for them. I had sex at what some people consider a young age (16) but it was my decision and nobody pressured me. I am 21 know and i am still happy with the decision I made. I ask my mom for advice but at the end I made the decision that I was ready alone and that I was going to have sex with my boyfriend with him. My mom wasn’t trill about it but she knew it was my choice and she preferred to instruct me about safe sex than to tell me no and still have me doing it with out knowing how to do it safely. kids are going to have sex even if the parents don’t what them to, so I think is better if you teach them how to make right decision and then let them do there own. some kids decide to have sex just because there parents said no, so with saying no all they did was push the kid to have sex and possibly the kid doesn’t know how to have safe sex and then they get hurt.
2006-11-13 21:09:34 · answer #5 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you are not going to burn up and go to hell. But you are rushing into things that are for people who are older and mature. I had sex very young and now that I am older I wish I hadn't. I wish I had enjoyed just being a teen. I tried to grow up to fast. Also you can be extremely care full and still get pregnant and or an STD!!!! PLEASE WAIT TILL YOU ARE OLDER!
2006-11-14 11:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Morbid Fairy Dust 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one knows if they will get pregnant or get std's really. The only way to not get either one, is to not do it at all. You can get some std's while using condoms too.
2006-11-15 16:41:15 · answer #7 · answered by designerista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a problem because condoms break and birth control fails sometimes. That means that there is a risk of both pregnancy and disease every time you have sex. There is also the problem of not being emotionally ready to have sex. That causes problems for the current relationships and could cause problems for future relationships as well.
2006-11-13 19:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Huge problem!!! Hello!!! It's called promiscuity, fornication, sex before marriage. Sex was not created for you to dabble with when you feel like it - it is what seals a couple forever! you are too young to even understand! Why give away what you should be saving for your husband someday. oh, I hear your mommy calling, now go home and be a good girl!
2006-11-13 20:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by Forever 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I think it's a huge problem.... I'm only in the 8th grade but I can pick out at least 5 girls from the 8th graders in my school who've lost their virginity... It's SICK. Also, my friend Demi was pregnant by 6th grade... She quit school and no one's seen her since. What would have happened if she caught a disease? We are not ready to have sex so young...
2006-11-13 19:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by infallible_wench 3 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is.
Children want more than anything to grow up and get away, don;t let them, I did, I had sex at 10 with my best friend, nowhere good, BAD BAD BAD!! Don't let it happen. Don't let them make mistakes like that when they're that young. They're youth depends on it, help them out, even if they end up hating you now, they'll thank you later. Good luck in life! 8p
2006-11-13 19:21:21 · answer #11 · answered by coca_cola_froggy 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋