My girlfriend is pregnant of 15 weeks and she is never close no more and always fighting is this normal?

Question

My girlfriend is pregnant of 15 weeks and she is never close no more and always fighting is this normal?
Tonight we were having a great night and she started a little fight yet blamed me. Then she texted me when i was walking home that our relationship is boring. I ask her does this means she wants to break up and she says no.
Everynight i call up its the same she works hard and shes always tired and never wants a cuddle or anything. I even ask for a hug sometimes and she seems like she doesnt want one.
But with her saying are relationship is boring what all does this mean.

Does she want to break up or what?

Answer 1

Yep, it's normal.
Her hormones are going nuts right now, causing mood swings, feelings of depression, etc. She's getting uncomfortable with the extra weight. She needs your absolute support, not you fighting with her.
Let her know that no matter what happens you'll be there for her. If she doesn't want a hug, don't force the issue. Do anything she wants, get her anything she wants, and don't argue. She's carrying your child, and it's HARD work to do so -- is it really that tough for you to fully support her for the 9 months or so that she's going to be doing this?
Oh, and don't worry -- at some points the hormones will swing the other way, and she'll be very affectionate and all over you. It's perfectly normal :)

Answer 2

Wait until after the baby is born to make any important decision. She is dealing with major hormonal changes right now that are causing her to act "out of character". My brother in law tells me that my sister turned into a real ***** when she was pregnant. Just remember that this behavior is only temporary. She says she doesn't want to break up so believe her. Just wait until she is "normal" again. Keep in mind that she may say things that she doesn't really mean, and she will not want to be intimate, and she is tired because she is carrying some extra weight. You can buy a sympathy pack that will allow you to feel how tiring it is to carry extra weight in your belly. After that, you might have a little better understanding about how she feels.

Answer 3

No! Do not break up with her, she is 3 1/2 months pregnant, her hormones are out of wack, at times for no apparent reason, other words, she is stressing. Be patient and just go with the flow, you got 5 1/2 months to go. Imagine that you are going what she is going thru, and maybe you'll understand a little better. Woman are hard to understand anyhow, when there pregnant, even more so. Make it easy on your-self and just go with the flow...Good Luck :o)

Answer 4

Yes, It's normal and there will be more of it. Buy her whatever food she wants and then feed it to her. Rub her feet, be supportive. Just do whatever she tells you to do while she is growing that beautiful baby. We women are a little altered when pregnant but there is nothing in the world or nature that will change that. Love her, she is going through hell right now in a way. It'll get worse and worse and worse if you don't even try to accept the highs and lows she has. Good luck, I do feel for ya.

Answer 5

It sounds like she could be stressed out from being pregnant. I had a friend who was pregnant and she often had her bad days.

Maybe she wants you to be a little more supportive? It does sound like you are doing your best though.

I suggest that you sit down and talk about it with her. Ask her why she thinks the relationship is boring, and then ask her if it's being pregnant that's bothering her, or you, or just whatever it is. Communication is important in a relationship.

- Good luck :-)

Answer 6

I doubt that she wants to break up... I would say that right now besides the hormone changes, which are natural, she may feel a bit insecure in the relationship, and feel afraid of having taken the right decision on having a child...
If you really love her, arm yourself with a little patience, and keep showing her that you care, and are there at her side... If she says she feels bored, do something silly...and sweep her off her feet... She may need you to make her smile!

Answer 7

Her hormones are all over the place, she doesn't know what she wants. I think you need to be patient with her for a while, maybe she is unhappy with your relationship but it's more likely to be the way she is feeling because of her pregnancy that's making her act like this.

Answer 8

If this baby wasn't planned, she's probably a little resentful and bitter towards you, a little angry...she probably doesn't like you too much but still does at the same time. But yes, pregnant women do get moody also. Hang in there!!!

Answer 9

Don't break up with her! This is completely normal. She is starting to develop "pregnancy mood swings". Don't worry! After a couple of months, she'd be too tired to even say a word.

Answer 10

hard to guess...but never give up, instead try to understand her situation, for sure she's just trying to get your (all) attention for her and the baby she's carrying right now, almost all pregnant women are sensitive in anything and everything, just try to be calm and be supportive of her. This way, she will realize how caring and loving partner you are to her. Good Luck!!!