How can I shut her mouth without getting drawn into her mess? I need stategy from experienced men who have dealt with this crazy madness. I need to break her down so she'll realize that her mouth is causing me to not like her at all.
2006-11-13 10:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by Smoooooooth! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well,madness like that never ends. Women who seem to draw drama into home life,or into any everyday activity will always be that way. The only people you truly change is children now a days. Adults already have their minds set,and their way about them.
How ever you should set some new "ground rules". Be firm with her,but not " I'm taking power over you,your my *****". Confront her,sometimes conveying the harsh,truth is the best policy,because people can never truly criticize themselves until someone they love,or who loves them,points out the wrong.
2006-11-13 11:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first off, you might want to stop putting all the blame on her - women don't just bit@h to hear themselves bit@h, and if you think she does, than honey, she just might not be the right gal for you.
What you might want to do is sit down and LISTEN to her.
Are you tired of all her bantering, does she constantly nag you to do this and do that? Do you hate the sound of her voice, because you "JUST KNOW" she gonna ask you to do something you don't wanna do right now? As a matter of fact...when was the last time you actually did something she asked you to do... WHEN she asked you to do it?
Has she turned into a different person? Well - what has changed my friend? Where did your sexy wife go?
HELLO? She's MAD AT YOU! So...before you go blaming her for every little thing she says, and for her coldness...get off the computer, try to remember the last thing she asked you to do - DO IT with a smile, and go get some sweet lovin's. Once you step up and do that - consistently - than the coldness will just melt away and your sexy wife will show you how HOT she can be.
Women like Men who like to PLEASE their women! Please her and she will certainly please the hell out of you!
2006-11-13 11:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you might be going about this all wrong, I mean you catch more bees with honey if you know what I mean. Try killing her with kindness first. The positive is that she is trying to communicate something to you, so just make sure you are taking the time to listen. ( And believe me I know the feeling but I've learned that atleast if I can catch the end of the game its a win win. ) You're wife probably just wants some attention, so make sure it comes from you and not someone else!
2006-11-13 11:01:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does she do? Talk too much? Or does she just have a major swearing problem? She probably needs you to listen to her and your stress. Don't be mean when you ask her to stop or cool it down because she will just get pissed. You are her husband and you are there to be there for her when she is stressed and needs to vent....she was like that before you got married I am assuming so now you can calming tell her to cool it and still be there to listen.
2006-11-13 10:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seek a marriage consultant for the both of you to attend. Sounds like she is not aware or not realizing what is going on.
2006-11-13 10:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by acedelux 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVER HERD OF CRAZY GLUE
2006-11-13 11:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
pray about her.
2006-11-13 10:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋