and what you prefer love marraige or arranged marraige ?
2006-11-13 10:50:13 · 11 answers · asked by malqanaei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are wise enough to differentiate beween infatuation and love, then love marriage is the way to go. However, if you are not sure about yourself, maybe you should leave it to your parents. Some people prefer arranged only to be able to blame their parents if it doesn't work out. I think that is too shallow if you consider marriage to be the single most important decision in your life that should be treated as an investment.
2006-11-13 11:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by thunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, with an arranged marriage you'd have more time to focus on finding your career and yourself w/o stressing so much on finding love. On the downside, there's always the possibity that you'll never feel real chemistry. With a love marriage, you have a better understanding of the person you're with, and the chance to grow emotionally with someone special. The downside, more and more people are so afraid of not finding love, they're willing to throw away everything to find and be with someone, just to regret it later in life.
Now as for my personal preference, it would depend on the situation. I'm big on chemistry, so being in a love marriage with lots of chemistry is ideal. But after hard break-ups, or when your career takes up the majority of your time, an arranged marriage might be a stress reliever.
2006-11-13 19:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by army g/f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never understood why anyone would want to be in a arranged marriage. How do these people know if you are going to be compatible, how do they know if love will grow, how do they know if we will last, how do they know if his person has the same morals and values as I do. Do they look into all these aspects before choosing a mate for me?
At least with a "love" marriage you are the one in control, you make your choices and you make them work or fail.
2006-11-13 18:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer a love marriage, but being busy and all, I won't put away the arranged marriage option. So long as the girl wants me.
2006-11-13 18:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by farhansallehin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously I prefer love marriage. But for some people who aren't lucky getting a partner on their own, an arranged date is an option.
Arranged marriages are typical of some cultures, so it depends on the mindmaps, costums, etc.
2006-11-13 18:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by cecilia d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont mind arranged marriages once your meet your groom to be before the wedding.
Actually, i would prefer several dates with the groom to be, to ensure compatibility.
Of course, the groom must be educated, same wealth, not a criminal or wife beater etc
i believe love can develop in those situations and that marrying for love ends in 50% of the time in divorce.
2006-11-13 18:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by K. Y. N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is like Russian roulette.
Whether it's love marriage or arranged marriage.
It doesn't make much difference.
A lot of them end up in divorce.
2006-11-13 19:48:52 · answer #7 · answered by qi-li-xiang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer no marriage. Either one you mentioned will cause problems.
2006-11-13 18:58:40 · answer #8 · answered by acedelux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love
2006-11-13 19:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong marry for love
2006-11-13 18:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by liza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋