My friends are now going through some different times now findind their own ways and I am too. I've always had small packs of friends but now that our pack is separating for a while I'd like to make new friends but I am so shy around new people. I go to a G.E.D school and I am around alot of students that have had it maybe a lot tougher than I have and I always feel like I can't relate to them, plus I don't really listen to the same music or watch the smae shows as them. I don't realy go out because I don't know how to approach new people. I always feel like theres no one that understands me and I know thats untrue. Can anyone help me?
2006-11-13 10:24:27 · 6 answers · asked by I'm better than you 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Even though the other kids around you may seem like they are so different that you can not relate to them. Try and stretch yourself out of your comfort zone. Try and talk to them, ask questions. Like how many siblings do you have. Ask them who sings that song. (if they seem nice and not mixed up with the wrong crowd) Then you may have a wonderful new friend waiting for you in a surprising new social group. You may find everything happens for a reason and making some new friends with different backgrounds and different interest may be why at this time you've had one door close on some old friendships to open another door for some new friendships. Look up and say hi to your new friend tomorrow.
2006-11-13 10:34:13 · answer #1 · answered by Buckey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband performs softball with a few coworkers on Friday nights and that is how I've met many in their other halves. A few folks have rather clicked and occasion at all times. Also, my daughter is in a mom's day trip application two times every week and he or she performs rather good with a few the children there and through the years I have got to grasp one of the vital mothers and we will be able to get them in combination typically at the days they do not have institution. But I'm cautious to not ever get stuck up in any dedication. I will not ever comply with assembly on Tuesdays or something like that...I simply do not just like the dedication, so I preclude mother agencies and matters like that. That's why I am very reluctant to provide out my touch understanding to any one I do not rather recognize. I could haven't any peers if it were not for my husband or daughter, lol. Guys appear such a lot greater at this form of factor, probably your husband may have a few men from paintings over for a poker recreation (or some thing - that is what my husband does) and feature them deliver their other halves and youngsters? You would not must fear approximately changing touch understanding considering the fact that your husbands already recognize each and every different. Good good fortune :)
2016-09-01 12:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be O.K. with how you really are on the inside and pursue people and interests that really appeal to you. Find a good Catholic or Bible believing church with activities and events for young people like you. Friends will follow.
2006-11-13 10:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by soulguy85 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try say hello and get to know a few of them i am the same way i will not meet new people they have to talk to me first which i think is wrong good luck i hope you find some friends
2006-11-13 10:34:29 · answer #4 · answered by allison b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of have the same problem too but me and my friends are breaking up. Dont be shy just go up to ppl and say hi, even though you dont really know them... but you will most likely will soon. i hope my advice will work!
liz
2006-11-13 10:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard. Be yourself. Trust me they will come.
2006-11-13 10:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Janea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋