im 17 and pregnant. my boyfriends brother girlfriend had a baby last year. the baby is now 1. i think if i have this baby it will be werid to have 2 babies in the house. please advice...PLEASE
2006-11-13 10:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by KDUB100 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Everything will be fine.
2006-11-13 10:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by mommysrock 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are so young, if no one has told you already and even with your boyfriend brother child in the house, children are expensive...at your age I was planning for college and setting up my IRA account. Having a child is a huge responsibility and I just dont think you are prepared, age is a factor, but not having educated yourself about the risk of unwanted/unplanned pregnancies is a big red light....not to judge or to be harsh, but think about what I said, are you really ready for this ???? Were you prepared before hand with the knowledge of what would come of your actions???
Alright, with your answers to those questions, you can answer your own question, I wish you alot of luck and good fortune, youre going to need it
2006-11-13 18:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow,17 and having a baby, that is a large responsibility at your age, be ready for alot of issues, having two babies in one house is an easy one, money wise, it takes so much to give the baby it's daily needs. We adopted two babies at birth, the best thing in the world for the two children, we were both 25 and college to back us up money wise, so thing alot of things out before the baby comes.I wish you the very best and feel free to email me if you need to talk.
2006-11-13 18:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by DONNA'S NIGHTMARE COME TRUE 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To bad you got pregnant at such a young age! Why don't young people take birth control? Let me guess, your boyfriend don't like to wear condoms. I'm sorry I hate to see you through your life away. I know when the baby comes it will be wonderful, just hope the daddy stays around!
2006-11-13 18:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Adam 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is pretty selfish of you to think that. If you were "grown up" enough to play house and get pregnant, then you should be grown up enough to take care of that baby! If you weren't ready to have a baby and become a responsible adult then you should have thought about that....don't make your baby have to pay for your irresponsibility. Things will be fine....
2006-11-13 18:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by autiesmummy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea what these people are saying. It will be difficult and challenging and for far more reasons then the cohabiting of all of you under one roof. Depending on the ages and maturity and resources, it could be helpful to have another mom around. Have you went to any parenting classes?
Please keep your head up and trust your intuition. Your little one is counting on it.
Peace & Love.
2006-11-13 18:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by donewiththismess 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will not be weird at all. If anything it will be better for the babies because they will have eachother, and better for you because your brothers girlfriend will know a lot more than you and can help you out a lot whenever needed. And a babysitter :-)
2006-11-13 19:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to me that at age 17 you would have heard of birth control... You saw what could happen without it & still you didn't bother???
Looks to me like you did it on purpose......
You play, you pay!!!! At 17, I would say the American people will most likely be paying for it actually....
2006-11-13 18:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
call a crisis pregnancy place in your town if you have one. "weirdness" is the last thing you should be worrying about. And she's right...it's time to grow up.
2006-11-13 18:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Katie Beth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you unable to get your OWN place after you have the baby? My fiance and I got our own place to live that we paid for. It's time to be grown.
2006-11-13 18:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i agree... try to find your own place...im 3 and a half months pregnant..Me and my boyfriend are movign into our own place till college.. i would never put a baby on my parents...and he wouldnt on his mother....
,,,get your own place.....
2006-11-13 19:14:27 · answer #11 · answered by future_claudio 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋