rage/anger??

Question

out of all the problems ive got this the one that worries me the most, ive had rage and anger since 1993 im now 29. i used to have out bursts in the street in public, going back years ago, recently its improved a great deal..but i still feel a great deal of anger towards people and i wanna no.. can it be treated? i fear am i some sort of ticking time bomb that might explode and do something serious? because although im not acting out, i still feel the powerful feelings inside and it makes you feel like you will lose control..& i do not want to...my thoughts race madly to..i have paranoid thinking, low self esteem & i can get really jealous of people because they look like they have a nice life & i feel alone & solitary, battling on alone, trying in vain to get the right treatment & diagnosis. my moods are constantly fluctuating, most of the time i dont feel like going out or doing anything, even muster energy to clean my teeth. my psych says its a personality disorder but im not sure??

can rage and anger this powerfull be treated? or am i doomed for disaster?

Answer 1

I'm no Doctor, although you sound as though you have Bi-polar tendency's. Seek mental help and be open about your situation. They can't help if you don't tell the truth.

Answer 2

everyone has a overemotion ,some is love some anger some jealousy and so on,some people act on it and some people keep it relatively under control. the main thing is finding a way that keeps these internal "volcano" eruptions from becoming public.if u let it become public ultimately u will pay the price of your actions,we all have to in a adult world.find a release of your "STEAM" that for timebeing is not anything competitive ie:running,swimming,cycling,and burn of any excess energy(anger food)until u are calm and rational enough to seek advice,that you can feel comfortable with,and not boil up because u think the advice does not apply to u and is useless,never is counselling spot on,but the thing is to calmy listen and somethings u relate with,when discussed with a councellor will help them build up a better picture over time of you and offer a "tailor made"solution path to your problems .dont go with the feelings or thoughts that they are trying to catch u out or have one over on you,i promise u this is not the case.i would not lie to u ,i have no reason,i dont know u,seek help and look at it this way ,u are getting help off someone,ultimately YOURSELF,u went because u know and are intelligent enough to know what u should do if things are getting beyond your control.GOOD LUCK.

Answer 3

Yeah, I wonder if Laura Bush has bruises all over her. Well, for myself I think after being alone for about four years as much as possible and avoiding therapists I've reasoned out that people get burned out especially in early childhood from over expectations. It's kind of being expected to multitask when you're sick like some slave.I knew there was certain people I wanted to stay away from so I tried. I had to realize for myself that you can't blame people around you for what went wrong in your life when they live and grew up in the same world.It's like getting a nasty flu bug and blaming it on the people who are closest to you. Try connecting the dots and putting the pieces of the puzzle back together that show a clearer picture and story of how you got where you are today. Much of it might just be blaming those closest to you because they didn't stop it or recognize it. Regressive hypnotherapy supposedly can help with this because it exposes the truths you had or have believed. Than I think you can seperate these emotions in an adult way. Some say meditation can help because it might help you the same way by doing your own search and defrag these memories without someone else interjecting. I would imagine there are many like you but this doesn't make it normal as much as it's a typical reaction to the world around us.You might not see the "Check Engine" light on but others do. When you can realize that you aren't right than research the field of psychology and symptoms and do some self diagnosis and compare notes with your therapist. Getting past denial is a major step. This is where I think statistics help people realize that they're not alone or being persecuted or singled out. I think there are better ways than just weeks of high priced therapy but unfortunately the world or society we now live in needs it's own tune-up. Remember 2008 can also be a date for major health care reforms for people like you and others. The war in the middle east is built on and controlled over these emotions. I don't think it's the diagnosis so much as it is doing the research into your own past. It's still a disorder regardless isn't it? Start from there. I think many emotional issues are connected to some form of depression and anxiety. Being able to write about it here to me strongly suggests looking at it from outside the box looking back in.

Answer 4

Of course it can be treated if you want to uproot the problem one should chant the Maha Mantra. Maha means Great man means mind and tra means to deliver. We need to deliver the mind from material existence. We are not who we think we are No the mind,body, senses, false ego, job, race, religion, etc. We are spirit soul part and parcel of the Supreme Soul. So when one actually understands this and takes up the process to realize this they become free from material existence, (lust anger, rage, greed etc.) Chant Hare Krishna Hare Krishn Krishna Krishna Hare Hare Hare Rama Hare Rama Rama Rama Hare Hare. Say it loud enough to hear each syllable. One can chant on beads of 108 in right hand- thumb one bead for one whole mantra. for more information and details on chanting this mantra go to http://www.stephen-knapp.com/chanting_hare_krsna.htm Also get the book The Key to Real Happiness and other books there are very helpful

Answer 5

in case you believe abuse and characteristic seen marks on the youngsters she cares for you're honestly mandated through regulation to communicate up. If there is truth to the allegation and also you're taking a seat through and do not some thing you're only as to blame. If there is no truth to it not some thing will ensue. i understand its problematic now and again yet be courageous and do the right project both list it to the police or baby protecting. you may also call baby protecting and proceed to be nameless.

Answer 6

It can be treated best with therapy and medication. I had the same problem and Zoloft has helped me along with counselling sessions to determine what might be the cause of my anger. Good luck.

Answer 7

geez pal why dont you go fight in the war or something and get it out or play some sports or do something you are gonna cry so much you will dry up and blow away