what should i do?
2006-11-13 09:53:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if he tells you that he loves you tell him that you don't like him.. be simple and to the point.. don't be afraid to hurt his feelings because if you give him hope, it will hurt him more.. tell him that you are sorry and like him as a friend.. also after you tell him that, try to keep your distance with him.. I mean like you don't really have to avoid him, is just like when he asks you out only the 2 of you, try to reject it.. don't give him hope that's empty.. it will hurt him and give a bad impression to you..
2006-11-13 10:15:25 · answer #1 · answered by L-j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question, this same thing happened to me before but i was the guy who asked out the girl. Okay all u have to do is be nice by saying like i don't want a bf right now. Or just say i already like someone and i think they might like me back so i don't want to go out with anyone else right now. So i hope this works for u.
2006-11-13 17:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by da man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make it awkward
you dont need to do anything
unless hes creepy and all over you or somehting then get some of your guy friends to beat him up and you ***** slap him across the face. hopefully if hes not too oblivious he'll get it.
but if you like him as a friend, then dont make it awkward (wow what an awkward word) between you two. you dont have to go out w/ him but dont be rude about it. if your good friends and you like your relationship as friends then keep it that way and if he tries to do somehting more let him know (in a nice way) that your not interested.
2006-11-13 17:58:26 · answer #3 · answered by softballgirl0127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to handle this without hurting anybody`s feelings is to ask around and find a girl that likes him.. Then work that girl matching magic!!!
It is not always easy when somebody don`t like you, so let him down by picking him up with the other girl! Just pretend it is your feelings at stake!
Good Luck!
2006-11-13 18:09:54 · answer #4 · answered by Susan Beck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, if he is your friend just act like you don't know and try not to get too close, but if he is not a friend then try not to talk to him or run into him, but don't just completely ignore him because that would be mean.
2006-11-13 18:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by *_* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well have you really gotten to know the guy because some times what happens is that you get a bad vibe at first and then you find out he completes you!! well give a chance to mprove himself to you and see if you end up liking him!!!
2006-11-13 17:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Noemi L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him. There are other guys that you will like.
2006-11-13 17:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Darling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be nice, but dont lead him on....let him down easy....or u could smack him upside the head and say "fool dont you know I dont like yo asss." Either way works for me....good luck!
2006-11-13 18:00:50 · answer #8 · answered by jdawg21s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he confronts you on it, don't smile and avoid the subject. Tell him that you aren't interested so he doesn't waste any more of his time.
But let him down easy. Tell him you are flattered, but you are not interested in him in that way.
2006-11-13 17:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ur sorry but i dont wana go out wit u im sorry
he will get it word from a man
2006-11-13 17:58:32 · answer #10 · answered by basballkis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋