What am I?

Question

I was molested at age 14. Ever since, i have been physically interested in guys, but interested emotionally in girls. What am I?

im not 14 anymore. im 17

im not 14 anymore. im 17

Answer 1

a teenage human
every one at some piont of there lives ask them self's
what am i really what are my dreams ambisions for life
who do i want to spend the rest of my life with either a person or group etc
where do i want to live
we can never answer these questions for other people
it sounds like you are just confused as very one else is
i think once you are older you should experament with differeent people and do different things with then and really know your self's likes and dislikes
after learn what you do with them and find the right person for you

Answer 2

No one can answer that question for you, only you can... Personaly speaking I am bi, I was never molested as a child I just feel attracted to both sexes, I go for what's in the heart not in the pants.

No matter what sex you are, you could just be going through a "curious" phase. Before you start getting in long term relationships and find out that you are straight do some sole searching for yourself.

Obviously, a molestation is something that no one should ever go through but it can affect people throughout thier lives. Just remember what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and getting through the mess of the past will only make you a stronger person in the end.

I do hope that everything works out for you, my email is also turned on so if you ever need someone to talk to you can always chat with me :)

Answer 3

I would say that this might take some experimentation on your part. The same thing happened to me when I was younger and I can say that I've been with both sexes. I prefer men, but every once in a while, the love of a woman is what I'm in the mood for. Only you can answer your own question, but I'd say if you enjoy both, then you're bi, if only one does it for you, then you go with that.

Answer 4

Your 14 and need time to figure it all out. You don't need to have all the answers at this time. And BTW I would talk to someone (professional counselor) about being molested. That will help you answer this question for yourself.

Answer 5

Traumatized. Assuming you are a girl, it is because you still like men physically like you are supposed to, but no longer trust them enough to give your heart away. You feel that you will be hurt again, and although this is sad, it is good that you are realizing there is something a miss rather than leading a lie throughout your whole life. I am the same way.

Answer 6

Have you ever been to a therapist in regards to being molested,that's a crime against you.Please seek wise council.I cannot tell you what you are,but if you are very confused and emotionally distraught please seek council.This kind of assault on you can cause so much trauma in many areas of your life.I will pray God directs you

Answer 7

Sounds like you might want to talk to someone with some training to help you figure this out on your own. While this site has good intentions it cannot replace professional help.

Use us as your crutch, your a counselor as your medication!

Answer 8

A confused child that needs professional councilling!

Answer 9

confused, think u may need some counciling. Only you will no if the person is right for you even if same sex as you . just be happy babes

Answer 10

You should see a mental health professional. Forget the religious freaks and their jesus bullshyte; they can't help you.