I am taking a business class this semester that I'm not doing so well in. Therefore, I started going to the professor's office hours a lot, and I started emailing him. Over the course of working with him, I begun developing feelings for him. I think that he's really smart, cute, funny, and just an amazing guy. Honestly, I get really excited around him, and I'd love to take things to another level especially since I'm not doing well in the class. But at the same time, my morals are telling me that this is wrong. What do you think?
I'm 19 btw.
2006-11-13 09:35:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Higher Education (University +)
depends on if he,s married and gorgeous, go for it girl
2006-11-13 09:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by crazychick.uk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I would not date or sleep with a professor or teacher for a grade. The reason is you only cheat yourself from learning the course and prevents you having the actual knowledge of the course which could have been learned and stuck in the brain. What I am trying to say is with out learning the course, you learn nothing by cheating the system instead of learning it the honest way and have knowledge about the course which stays in the brain, and not have to rely on someone else or books when someone ask you about it or being tested. That makes the person a bit more intelligent.
2006-11-13 17:53:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can sit here and tell you how ethically wrong this is, but if your teacher is so morally bankrupt as to sleep with an "easy" student such as yourself in exchange for a grade, I say Go For It! Of course, you'll learn nothing from the class, be behind as you move forward in your education, and if anyone finds out, you'll be labeled as a s-l-u-t.
So, what are you willing to risk?
If you really care about him and want to "take things to another level", trading sexual favors for rewards is not a good start. It is obvious that you only care about yourself, otherwise you wouldn't dream of jeopardizing his career. Why don't you wait until the class is done to date him? Because your selfish, narcissistic and manipulative, that's why. Try studying! Jesus! Instead of hanging around him and dreaming of ways to screw him, crack open a textbook or join a study group.
Better yet, just drop out, marry into money, and stop bothering people with moronic questions concerning a basic sense of right and wrong that you obviously don't possess.
One more thing. GROW UP!!!!!!
2006-11-13 17:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Kballs 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Definately not. I'd actually try to study harder, and if possible get to know him better. You never know, he may just seem cool and funny around you. Sleeping with someone for a better grade would most likely leave you depending on others for the rest of your life. So get it out your system now!
P.S. Perhaps you should try telling him your feelings instead. It'd probably end up better than if you slept with him.
2006-11-13 17:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~Ashley~ 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you do it, do it for the grade or just the fun of it. I don't think I would let my heart get invloved, because it will not be a long term thing. As far as morals go... If you are a moral person... Then you already know what you are contimplating goes against the grain of good morality.
2006-11-13 17:44:22 · answer #5 · answered by Me 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If that is the way you expect to go through life...go ahead. I hope you can sleep at night. It will get you far, then you drop like a rock as you age and the others arounfd you want to remove themselves from an embarassing position.
2006-11-13 17:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Morally you probably shouldnt, even if you did sleep with him. How do you know for sure he would raise your grade? Just think what would happen if word got out that you did sleep with him, and the dean found out. Think about that.
2006-11-13 17:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by purdue_softball12 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it. There is a good chance that he wont raise your grade if you sleep with him.
Get help from others in your class. Dont sleep with the teacher.
2006-11-13 18:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by lildude211us 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Id say not to do that. U could get in trouble for that stuff. Dont mess around, theyll put a law suit on you.
2006-11-13 17:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pug_Luver 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's another way instead of sleeping with teachers. It's called TUTORING!!
2006-11-13 17:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW !!! DON'T DO IT!!!! It is a mild crush. Don't risk f*cking things up for both of you over that. It could really backfire on you.
2006-11-13 17:44:19 · answer #11 · answered by Snoopy's Best Friend 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋