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i wear baggy shirts and they still stare like crazzi.....i understand that guys do that but is there a way to them to stop and be polite about it?

2006-11-13 09:27:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style Fashion & Accessories

15 answers

Every time you are having a conversation with them and they are looking down, stop speaking. They will eventually look back up, then you raise your brows knowingly. If they keep doing it, they certainly are not being polite to you so I wouldn't worry too much about being polite back. When you are overtly attractive, or have large breasts, that is what people see first. To all those who say "enjoy it while it lasts," I say, you are more than your breasts and if it bothers you, it is not something you have to endure. Humans may be drawn to large breasts, but due to evolution, we have the choice to be respectful and avert our gaze. Stand up for yourself.

2006-11-13 09:41:10 · answer #1 · answered by Rain 2 · 1 0

Short answer: NO

As others have said, just think of the attention as a compliment. For us(men) it's like asking somebody not to stare if an elephant with pink stripes were to walk in the room. We can't help it. Of course, if somebody makes a lewd or inappropriate comment you would have the right to be upset. Don't think of it as a problem and it won't be one.

2006-11-13 09:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0 0

Seriously think about this. If a guy stares at you, do you feel self conscience or proud? Guys stare because they see something they like and desire. Feel good about your body enough to realise that its a compliment if guys stare at you breasts. If you dont feel that confident about your body then I suggest you you find a way to cope with it because nothing short of telling a guy to grow up and turn around (in the nicest way possible of course....) will work. A woman's body is a work of art, don't be afraid to display a little bit of it.

2006-11-13 09:40:56 · answer #3 · answered by geronemo 2 · 1 0

for sure boobs count number to adult males. although the authentic project is what the fortunate dude famous out later. it fairly is: nipple length. Now adult males like those all diverse sizes, yet any red-blooded guy will inform you the dimensions of the nipple is a million cases extra major than the boob! As for picking a destiny through her body, no. bodies are relaxing, although the relaxing of an magnificent mind, humorousness and personality very last til lack of life do you area! hips dont count number, only an section for a guy to positioned his fingers, your guy could like yours no count number what they are like.

2016-11-23 20:06:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

For heaven's sake, let it be! You have been blessed. Be proud of what you have! Being physically attractive is a wonderful, but terribly short-lived asset: enjoy it while you can. Let the guys stare; you will be pleased to know it'll be so much easier to attract a mate.

2006-11-13 09:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You should not have to change the way you dress because of other people...just remind them when they are being rude that your face is up here and not in your chest. I imagine that some are not aware that they are staring and will most probably be embarrassed when you point it out.

2006-11-13 09:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 1 0

Boys will be boys!!! There is not much you can do with covering up your boobs. The best thing to do is ignore it or make a comment that will keep them stunned!!

2006-11-13 09:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by lily9flower9 2 · 2 0

All I can say is that if you are having a conversation with a guy and he's not looking at your face, just tell him, "Hey, I'm up here."

2006-11-13 09:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1 0

One simple fact of life:

Boobs are eye-magnets. If you have the "assets", then there's not a lot you can do about it, short of having them reduced.

2006-11-13 09:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

guys are guys and that is what they do. there isn't much you can do. if you say anything to them they will do it all the more because they know it bothers you. ignore and eventually they won't look any more.

2006-11-13 09:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 1 0

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