I have these friends who I was close to. Recently they said they needed space, and I gave it to them. However deep down I was angry that they said that and I am feeling like I don't want them in my life anymore. Now they're wanting to reconnect, and I can't bring myself to do it anymore. It's like so much energy to talk to them, and to try to connect with them. They just make me feel annoyed and I have all this strange anger towards them. I don't think I can forgive them for wanting space a while ago. My husband still wants to be friends with them so I'm trying, but I just get so mad and annoyed. What should I do? What's wrong with me?
2006-11-13 09:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by Rayslittlegurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this sounds like a sticky situation! are you sure you're not leaving out any details here? i mean, i'm very confused with this situation
2006-11-13 10:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. Friendship is not something you can put on hold. They put you on hold, for too long. It's your turn to decide what you want. Nothing is wrong with you if the friendship has run it's course. Happens all the time. Just keep living the life you were before they wanted to reconnect. I had a friend try this before...and I just said that too much time had past and things had changed. End of story.
2006-11-13 09:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by nottashygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off your husband has no right to tell you who to be friends with.If they made you feel so bad they wasn't true friends in the first place. I would just tell them I'm sorry, but I need my space. Sounds like they are just a little click, and only wants you to be around when they want you around.
2006-11-13 09:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by CHEROKEE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some people to talk to and blow some steam off being mad forever doesn't get you anywhere just find a new friend or internet people are good because they don't know you enough to hurt you and then try and see what you think of them and if you don't like it tell your husband and move on from them
2006-11-13 09:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by elc9933 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurly, there is NOTHING wrong with you. For them to gang up on you was totally wrong and should not have happened. They had their space and you've realized that you are sick of their **** and don't want to deal with it and good for you! You stay strong and make the mature decision that you want to make. Do what you want to do and hopefully your husband can understand it.
2006-11-13 09:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your husband about how you feel. If he still wants these folks as friends after you have talked then you may be having more problems than just with your friends.
2006-11-13 09:18:00 · answer #6 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the old friends, strike out in a new direction... Re-invent yourself. Follow a new dream, and new positive friends will be attracted to you.....Nothing is wrong with you. You are just experiencing a new level of awareness in your life.......
2006-11-13 09:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by whidd2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothings wrong with you. Maby you need some more space then they did. And if they don't like it then maby you don't need them that bad. Becuase you can't do everything on their schedule.
2006-11-13 09:32:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kayla [(Adam)] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew my "bestfriend" in view that Kindergarten too... i recently desperate it became into time to permit bypass. i became into uninterested in her strolling over me and being a ***** to my different pals and that i left and my meant-to-be-pals Stayed together with her yet now I even have the three bestfriends in the worldwide (: lady , i wish you sturdy success! Drama Sucks i be attentive to. !
2016-10-17 05:53:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find some more better friends
2006-11-13 09:17:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋