do you find it hard to tell your childs father or mother that you have a date and need them to watch the kid(s

Question

for those that have children but arent with the mother/father. when you need the other parent to watch the child for the night or the weekend and you have a date but you dont feel comfortable telling the other parent thats what you are doing, do you have a hard time finding an excuse or do you tell them the truth? do you find it hard to tell them that you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and that you have no desire to be with them in anyway again?

Answer 1

I know how you feel. I was in the same place. Don't feel bad it is no longer their business. You need to have a life too.

Answer 2

Its hard to get him to keep our daughter. If he gets a hint that i'm going out he says he has to work. I try to tell him I need my personal time too!