I'll admit it im a lil jealous, but i think that is wrong for man who are married to see stripers and im trying to change my mind about that unless really is bad. I cant imagine a girl getin naked in front of my man drives me crazy. I think if a guy goes its because hes not satified with what he has in his life, and then i wouldnt want him to come home sleep with me and think about those girls. Even before you get married i stil think is wrong i think those things are for man who are womanizers. Am i wrong do u think its ok? and why? Please how can i change my mind about this? if you think its ok. P.s. i would think guys who do go are cheaters cuz they need other to see other naked girls so they tend to cheat.
2006-11-13 08:59:46 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In time you will come to appreciate the saying.... "I don't care where you work up your appetite as long as you eat at home".
2006-11-13 09:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Letsee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible links sexual appetite with covetousness and idolatry.
Colossians 3:5 - Deaden, therefore, YOUR body members that are upon the earth as respects fornication, uncleanness, sexual appetite, hurtful desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry.
The one coveting something desires it so much that it becomes the dominant thing in his life, eclipsing everything else.
Christian husbands to assign honor to their wives. A husband who fails to do so will find that his prayers to God are hindered. (1 Peter 3:7) Would secretly viewing indecent images of women be treating one's own wife honorably? How would she feel if she found out? And what would the God who will bring "every sort of work into the judgment" and who makes "an estimate of spirits" think? (Ecclesiastes 12:14; Proverbs 16:2) Could one who uses pornography have any reason to expect that his prayers would be listened to by God?
2006-11-13 09:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by damesha 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are making a big todo about nothing. If your man is staying up till 2 am every night at those places and spending thousands of dollars, then yes, you have a big problem.
If he otherwise is a nice loving husband who occasionally goes to a strip club, I dont think you should worried. Not to mention 99% of strippers won't do anything sexual with your man anyway.
Oh, and on the jealousy part of it....all men masterbate, and they are thinking about women other than you. Nothing you say or do to delude yourself will change the fact. Just get over it and be happy he isnt cheating on you.
2006-11-13 09:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah that's a sprint weired it relies upon on what form of reltionship you have and the form of guy he's, if he's like strippers yeah!! and is all approximately going out with the adult males to strip golf equipment, and watches porn and is a biit sleazy then i could be afflicted yet whilst hes the nerdy form then I wouldnt be too afflicted as its YOU who he marrying not some woman who he doesnt even comprehend, you should enable him have that nighttime yet you do have faith him good ? and he would be seeing in basic terms you for the the remainder of your lifes. additionally you are able to continuously gime him a sprint lapdance your self then hes getting interest from you not an odd woman with out outfits on. have faith me it incredibly works I gave my husband a lapdance or 2 he enjoyed it, and whilst he went to a bachelor occasion the place there grew to become right into a stripper he mentioned i grew to become into lots better, so solid success !!!!
2016-10-22 00:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by hosford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To guys, women are like cars…
Guys will get the one that they REALLY want. We admire others as they pass by. We'll even look up different models on the web or magazines. We imagine what it would be like driving others. We even sometimes miss the good times and bad of previous ones. We can even pay money to test drive others (eww). BUT…We will NEVER give up or replace the one that we have and love.
Also...this one applys too...
>Put your hand in a bowl of water, make a TIGHT fist, pull your hand out, now open it.
>Now, put your hand back in the bowl, GENTLY cup your hand, lift slowly
>>>Which one allowed you to hold on to what you wanted?
I'm a victim of this very same parable. So...I know exactly what can happen.
If he's not cheating, don't worry about it.
2006-11-13 09:07:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it is not cheating first of all since he is not touching the girls. Your making it seem like seeing another girl naked that hes cheating on you well when he watches porn on the computer that hes cheating on you again. Also men like to see many girls naked its just in there nature. IF i were you and want him to stay home you should try to strip for him at home once in a while make it a sorta romantic thing with candles and whatever. this will definitely make him alot happier to stay home.
2006-11-13 09:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are entitled to your opinion. I don't mind if my hubby goes sometimes but not on a regular basis. I've been to a strip c;ub...it's really not that glamorous. Almost skanky.....most of the girls that I met are just trying to get through college or have enough money to raise their babies. Some are just drug addicts.
Either way men are pleased visually and that is why it is hard for us women to relate. Remember one thing....none of the women at the strip club are thinking about your husband...they're thinking about his wallet...that's what it is all about. Don't fret!!!
Surprise your hubby and go with him or do a little strip tease for him!!
2006-11-13 09:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I never saw the benefit of going to a nudie bar. That's like sitting in your hot rod and just revving it but never being able to drive it.
Why get all worked up for nothing? It's a complete waste of time and money. At least a hooker will finish the job.
2006-11-13 09:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong when you're married. Regularly indulging in sexual fantasy about other people, whether watching films or going to strip clubs, is a form of infidelity. You have made a commitment to be sexually monogamous with your partner, and you break it by deliberately focusing your sexual attention on someone else.
You will feel "cheated on" by your partner because he needs something other than you in order to become aroused.
You will feel insecure about your body, your sexuality and your ability to satisfy your partner.
You will feel emotionally distant and separate from your partner during sex, worrying that he is not completely "there" with you.
You will feel angry and resentful towards your partner for not respecting your feelings..
You will eventually feel turned off to sex, since for you, it is associated with humiliation, control and a feeling of inadequacy.
2006-11-13 09:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he is not cheating physically. You should go with him, you should have the same intrests as your mate anyway, do you strip for him?
2006-11-13 09:17:38 · answer #10 · answered by sw312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋