My husband and I decided to start trying to conceive this month, and we are so excited to possibly get pregnant.
Well, I calculated when I should be ovulating and its going to be around Thanksgiving while we are visiting my grandparents out of state. We are staying in their extra bedroom and I am embarassed to have sex in their house.
My husband said we can be really discreet and have sex on the FLOOR so the bed won't make any noise. We want to have a baby ASAP so I don't want another month, but I don't know if this is okay to do.
I don't plan to tell anyone we conceive on vacation so I don't have to explain myself! lol
What do you think? Try to conceive while visiting grandparents for 10 days, or wait another month?
2006-11-13 08:58:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are visiting for 10 days chances are you will probably end up making love. Thats a long time. Just keep it quiet. Don't get stressed if you don't become pregnant right away.
2006-11-13 09:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by sara b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Clean it up the great that you can. 2. Tell your mother and father. 3. Dump the crappy buddies who helped trash the apartment. Four. Face your grand-father and mother earlier than they stroll in and see what you have got performed and take responsibility for what occurred. 5. Pray your grandparents (and mom and dad) will believe you again. They'll ultimately, however it's gonna be a whilst earlier than they are able to. You're gonna need to earn their believe back. Providing them any cash you have to support pay for the damage is also a good way to show you are truly sorry for what occurred and that you need to make it up to them. Good luck!
2016-08-09 22:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex on your side so the bed doesn;t squeak will be a treasured story if you can pull it off. Even grandma will be excited after the fact if she got a new kid conceived in her house...whether you admit it or not.
There is always the back seat of the car on the way there...another good story for the family in the future.
2006-11-13 09:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it! I mean, how do you think that you eventually got here? My brother and sister-in-law conceived at her brother's house over Christmas vacation 2 years ago. And believe me, you won't have to say anything, some may figure it, and others could care. They'll just be happy that you're pregnant. So, have fun!
And plus, trying to be quiet and undetected is half the fun!
Good luck!
2006-11-13 09:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dianna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone I know who wanted to get pregnant managed to do it on vacation. I say do it. I think it will make it seem more like a no-no and less like trying anyway! Every time I wanted to get pregnant it took me at least a year (except when we went out of town). Let us all know that you got pregnant while on vacation! But don't tell grandma and grandpa.. or wait Great Grandma and Great Grandpa!! Good luck!
2006-11-13 09:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Always Right 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to be there for 10 days then by all means you should have sex. I haven't gone 10 days without sex in a long time. Just try to be quiet. They will never know.
2006-11-13 09:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I would say go for it! Nothing like the thought of making a child. And even better the excitment of pregnancy!! I don't think, (since your married) that your grandparents would mind even if they knew. I bet the thought of a great-grandchild to them is a wonderful thought. I know my husbands grandparents loves having their great-grandaughter! Good luck with everything, and God Bless!!
2006-11-13 09:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by Rileigh's MOMMY! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gonna say go for it...it's not like they don't know your having sex anyway- you're married. Besides- they probly did some wild and crazy stuff in their younger days themselves...I'd just try to keep the noise down...
2006-11-13 09:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to go for it- and then name the baby after one of them!!!or the city, street or something- maybe they are so old they are a little hard of hearing- have fun- D
2006-11-13 09:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem. As long as you aren't on the couch or the kitchen counter, who cares!?!? I would have no problem at all. Good LUCK!!!
2006-11-13 09:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Chavahleah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋