me and my girlfriend were dating for a very long time amd i love her to death but she is just so jealous sometimes, she gets on my nerves and acts like she doesnt trust me but you know she was improving and i still adore her with all my heart i believe we are soul mates but see one day she accused me of cheating on her because she found a text message with one of my friends just talking as friends but she took it the wrong way, so i broke it off with her and from all the anger i was so frustrated i was telling people you know i am happy to be single but that wasnt the case i was just upset, and she got into my face so i swore at her =x then she started to beat me and and got crazy so i hit her back.... i regret it till this day because now i dont know i love her with all my heart and it was just a reaction... should i have done it... and do you think she will ever forgive me? i never beat on her it was just i got angry because she hit me..... what do you think?
2006-11-13 08:39:34 · 15 answers · asked by adel d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think your girlfriend has some serious issues and this is a major red flag. You did react and hit her and this was wrong. You should have walked away. She needs some counseling and if they two of you are ever going to have a chance she must deal with her issues of insecurity. You should definitely apologize to her both for her and yourself. Good luck and God bless. *
2006-11-13 08:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you both are in the wrong here....no just one of you. She shouldn't have started beating you up and you shouldn't have started swearing at her. If you guys aren't together it doesn't really matter if she forgives you or not because it isn't your problem now. If you love her that much that it means so much then call her and try to work out things. The reason she was so jealous is because she probably has low self-esteem and didn't want you to find anyone else....she just had a weird way of showing and telling you that. Good Luck and I hope this helps!!
2006-11-13 08:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it was not ok. It was not ok on her part to hit you either, but two wrongs do not make a right. You could have easily just walked away, neither of you can ever take it back. if you really want to get back together, you should both talk about going to anger management and maybe just some couples counseling or group therapy. however, if she can't trust, now would probably be the best time to just let her go.
2006-11-13 08:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can undoubtedly chalk this one up to experience. You let your emotions get the best of you and now youre paying the price for something so stupid and immature that it defies words. The second you hit her it was over. She will never trust you no matter what you say or do especially since she doesnt know what will happen the next time you get mad, nor do you really. Time to move on and hopefully dont date any of her friends because your reputation is certainly destined to preceed you. Good luck
2006-11-13 08:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm female and I say unless you were up in her face she shouldn't have hit you UNLESS she expected to get hit back. I'm just talking about slapping your face as a quick reaction BUT Heck no...a woman should never beat on a guy like shes lost her mind or he hit her first...My boyfriend says he would just get away from her asap for fear of what he may do because he was raised NEVER to hit a female. I tend to disagreee with him but hey thats what makes the world go around. Right?Also if ya'lls relationship gets heated up that quicly, somethings wrong. Agree?
2006-11-13 08:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never ok to beat someone. OK she hit you BUT presumably she is still smaller and weaker (being a female). You best just let this go and deal with your "reaction". If you did get back together then her being so jealous and you "just reacting" sounds like bad news to me. Walk away and consider just what might happen. Take it easy. You got off lightly - be thankful for that.
2006-11-13 08:46:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think she had issue with trust for you and she probably always will. She hit you and thats a sign of abuse you hitting her back wasn't the answer you should of just walked away. What happends if she hits on you again? It could get ugly.
2006-11-13 08:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by yellow_lady916 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you two are D O N E. Get help-cause even if your angry, even if she hit you--you are a man and CANNOT hit a women back. Learn to walk away--learn to control YOUR anger no matter what someone else does to you.
2006-11-13 08:43:02 · answer #8 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is not any longer something incorrect which includes your expectancies right here. The harm and confusion could have stemmed from the reality which you probably did no longer modern-day all of it up front. before everything you suggested they could stay there, no situation. then you definately got here decrease back and suggested, "via the type you ought to sign a hire and additionally you ought to save your pets outdoors." you extremely replaced the guidelines on them after the reality and so as that they grew to grow to be understandably harm. Doing company with family contributors is in comparison to doing company with strangers. They have been possibly additionally harm on account which you probably did no longer believe them to preserve your sources. At this factor, what's to be gained via saying who replaced into precise and who replaced into incorrect? the two sides of this argument are offended and harm and sense as though they have been wronged. you ought to stick on your weapons, insist you have been precise and proceed to hold a grudge. or you ought to declare that family contributors is extra important than company, what's performed is performed and it's time to flow on from this. stable success, i wish you could choose for this with out transforming into extra friction which includes your loved ones.
2016-12-14 06:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you are both very immature. No offense but thats my opinion. I think you should end this relationship because you may get into a pattern of hitting and that wouldnt be good for either of your future relationships.
2006-11-13 08:42:27 · answer #10 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋