This dream is not a night-mare. I don't think. Each night I have a dream that I am at a party that is being held for me and everybody that I have ever met in my entire life is there. During the party my friend comes up to me and asks if she can talk to me and I say "Sure." Then she tells me that she is leaving and never coming back and there is a shadowy figure that always pulls her away and every night that figure gets clearer and clearer. After my friend tells me she is leaving, I go into a bathroom and cry. While I'm in there my friend's mother comes in to try and get me to stop and then I wake up. And when I wake up I always have tears running down my face like I was actually crying in my sleep.
2006-11-13 08:38:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dreams that you have over and again are often premonitions, a view into the future. You could try changing the dream to an outcome you want. Try looking up lucid dreams and lucid dream programming. Lucid Dreaming is knowing that you are dreaming while you are doing it. When you know that you are dreaming, you can also alter the dream course. And with practice you can also develop full control over your dream, you will be able to create and change the environment and change your own appearance. It will be you that are in control of the dream scenario. You can do whatever you want to do. Live out your wildest fantasy, or just sit down and chit chat with someone. You should also be open for the possibility to share dreams and travel in time and space when you develop adequate control over your dreams. The word Lucid means that you have a clear and full consciousness. And believe me when I say that Lucid Dreaming can be much more fun than waking reality.
2006-11-13 08:50:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like fear of loss. One method I used to use (borrowed from my former spouse's shrink) was to play the dream out when awake. This may help, if you can experience and identify the feelings behind the dream. Another method would be to contact your friend and see if you could reassure yourself that you weren't in immediate danger of losing him or her. Of course since dreams don't follow daytime logic, the friend may really be a symbol for someone else
2006-11-13 08:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Fat Daddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try to continue the dream to work out the lesson or what emotions I am trying to understand. Dreams are the mind's way of working through issues, so try to go with it. Try to stay asleep or go back to sleep to finish.
2006-11-13 08:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-13 12:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Spirita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that talking about a re-occuring dream will help it to stop. Not so sure though!
2006-11-13 08:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by malteser*_* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face the dark figure in your dream. Grab it and smack it or goose it, or throw your drink at it, whatever you need to do to confront it. Do this and it will stop happening.
2006-11-13 08:43:53 · answer #6 · answered by el 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write it down and sell it as a film script. I've heard worse...
2006-11-13 08:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by stephen505040 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably stop happening, but if you are really concerned you should probably talk to your doctor.
2006-11-13 08:48:06 · answer #8 · answered by kait 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO TO THE DOCTOR.
2006-11-13 08:42:29 · answer #9 · answered by cheyjas_1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋