there are these 2 gurls at school and they bother me all the time because they supposedly say that i got them written up on the bus they curse about me to people who i thought were my friends !
i told an adult and she did nothing about it so now im thinking about taking the matters in my own hands!
someone please help!
2006-11-13 08:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by cutethang011 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well child I think you need to relax. If you are innocent as charged then all you can do is tell those two girls that you did not tell on them. If you did, apologize to them. Then all you have to do is ignore them. Do not try to get even, it only makes things worse. In my opinion, the average school girl is the meanest and most uncaring person. You have to remember this, as long as you live your life and do things in the right and respectable manner, nobody can tell you otherwise. It is your duty to know the truth about yourself and when others try to pick on you for it, just know that they are ignorant and are only seeking attention, mostly from you. Just ignore them and try to cherish your childhood.
2006-11-13 08:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by Brian J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all tell the bus driver that you are being bullied I know it is hard to tell because that just causes more problems. I was young once too and i still remember bullies. don't let them see that you are scared of them stand up to them. if they start saying things just stand up and say I am sick and tired of you running your mouth and say it with anger. believe me I am sure they will back off. when girls think you are intimidated they seem to drag things out. I bet you notice that they seem to say more when they are together. Honey I know this is a crisis for you right now but believe me.. in a few years you will look back and laugh. Good luck please try to stay away from physical.
2006-11-13 08:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you are better off to ignore them and move on. If other girls are truly your friends, they will not listen. If the adult you already told didn't take action, then possibly he/she didn't think action was necessary in this case. Get over it and remember what Jesus said, "turn the other cheek." If you get upset, then you are giving away your power to them - be the bigger person and ignore them. I have told my daughter the same thing. :)
2006-11-13 08:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Forever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you get more involved with whatever they think you did, it can't help. Try talking to a higher authority figure and have it sorted out. It sounds lame, but peer mentoring? If you DO confront them, try to sort it out peacefully and just ask them about it, anything physical will make things a lot worse and greater consequences can follow.
2006-11-13 08:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly.2113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take anything into your own hands, tell lots of adults so if something physical does occur they know youve been telling them youve been being harassed. Dont give them the time of day, then theyll feel like idiots.
2006-11-13 08:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by incubabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore it but if it gets worse go to the assistant principle and just go higher if it keeps going on.
2006-11-13 08:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kayla [(Adam)] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore them. now you know who your friends really are. if they really bother you, tell another adult and make sure they do something about it.
2006-11-13 08:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋