ok my friend is getting married soon and she is gonna move out but her parents arent going to let her take her two year old daughter because thay are the ones that raised her.She is doing so much better with her daughter now but it is still the same she is irresponsible when it comes to her child.She is upset at her parents and i can see why but i also see where her parents are coming from.What should i do? Take her side or her parents side? Help me!!!
2006-11-13 07:27:13 · 10 answers · asked by hottie4u_35776 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
keep out of it.
2006-11-13 07:28:27 · answer #1 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well like you said you see where her parents are coming from but that's her child and no matter who took care of her daughter it's her choice if she wants to stand up and take care of her child, so I believe that you should take her side but distance yourself from her personal problems and you will still be being a good friend.
2006-11-13 07:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not take her or her parents side. You should think about the CHILD. If her parents do not feel that she is a fit mother then they need to ask the courts for custody. If she feels that she is a fit parent, then she can fight it.
2006-11-13 07:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Krystal 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her parents can not take her child away from her just like that, it will have to go through court. I think that now she is getting married she will become more responsible.
2006-11-13 07:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard, but it really is between her and her parents. Try to be supportive of her, because if you side with the parents, she won't talk with you any more.
Try talking with her and giving her little ideas about what she could do to mend fences with her parents. Hopefully she will take your advice.
Good Luck!
2006-11-13 07:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by ♦♦pixiechix♦♦ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is just support your friend and try to stay neutral. You dont want to take sides in this matter becuase you are just a friend. Not blood!!!! And how does anyone know if she can do it if no one has alittle faith. Start having alittle faith in her and who knows she might surprise everyone
2006-11-13 07:30:04 · answer #6 · answered by homie_j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take side it could break up the relationship, just try to talk to her
2006-11-13 07:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by Little D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to talk to both,,your friend,,and her parents
and try to make their opinions come together,,,but dont be in one side and leave the other,,,take care
2006-11-13 07:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by carry_me5455 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the courts will step in and see if she is a fit mother, i would stay out of it , could get nasty
2006-11-13 07:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how about stayin neutral...its a family issue ..let them resolve it..
2006-11-13 07:29:43 · answer #10 · answered by nfocuz00 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋