I don't think i have as many friends as i should, and sometimes i feel like i'm getting left out or missing out on stuff. I also haven't been able to get a boyfriend. What can i do so that people notice me, but in a good way?
2006-11-13 07:13:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I would recommend doing volunteer work. This is a good way to meet people who have similar interests as you do, make positive change in your community, and express a positive side of your personality.
2006-11-13 07:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by steve d 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Well you got allot of answers but they don't seem to hit the mark ,,,, If you are wondering about yourself then do a self evaluation and be ready to be honest ,,,, Get a piece of papper and make two columns ,,,, On one side make a list of what you think your good points are and on the other ,,,,, Be truthful with yourself and list what you think the bad things are or what you think could use some improvements ,,,, If you have a close friend then you might ask her advise and help too ,,,,Two heads are always better than one ,,,, Where the bad side is concerned ,,,, try to figure out what you could do to remedy these problems ,,,, As for the good side ,,,, Try to improve on them ,,,,If the opportunity arises be prepared to do things for people because a friend in need is a friend in deed ,,,,Be prepared to go that extra foot or so ,,,,, so to speak ,,,, to help some one where you can,,,, It usually pays off in the end ,,,, Your basic goal is to become more fun and interesting to be around ,,,, Maybe what I've suggested will help you ,,,, Good luck with this and have fun ,,,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2006-11-13 16:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
welll this is very interesting....because how can u have a set number of expected friends...just be happy with the amount that you do have. Now if you feel left out what are you doing that would make someone exclude you. Are you bossy? Do you tend to gossip alot? Are you friends with people that others dont like because you are a product of the company you keep. Now for this whole boy thing how old are you? Well that doenst really matter...is there anyone that your interested in cause you dont want a boyfriend just for the sake of havin one cause you will be highly disapponted in the end. so narrow down the guys you like and find things that you have in common with them and use that to ur advantage.
2006-11-13 15:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by odugurl03 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Are the friends you have now good and loyal? Do you like them and respect them? Are you comfortable with them? If yes, you are lucky. The quality of your friendships is more important than the quantity. People like those who genuinely like and respect themselves, do you? If yes, great! If no--that's an area to look into and work on. You cannot change others, but you can achieve your dream by projecting the nicest and the best you possible. Good luck!
2006-11-13 15:29:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have three rules to help people win friends.
The most important thing to remember is that the advice "just be yourself" is misleading. You need to be the BEST version of yourself, not just the person who wakes up in the morning.
Rule 1: Take care of your appearance. Looks count in this world, and when you look good, you feel good. You need to make sure that you style your hair, wear clothes that fit you and are attractive, go to the gym or start walking/running, clean up your car and your house. Take time to assure that you look as good as you can.
Rule 2: Actually talk to people. You aren't going to have friends fall from the sky. People like people they can talk to, and wallflowers are not easy to talk to. Be a person who starts conversations, a person who says "hello" to people, even those she doesn't know!
Rule 3: Don't be creepy/Be normal. This rule is sort of nebulous. What you want to do is showcase your good and tone down your bad habits. Don't pick your nose in public and don't obsess about american idol or star wars. Talk about current events or school politics or fashion, I'm not saying conform and I'm not saying give up care bears, I'm just saying be normal, at least at first.
2006-11-13 15:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is amazing how attractive people find others who are interested in THEM.
if you'd like people to notice you in a good way, stop focusing on yourself and start actually noticing others. This doens't work as a ploy, though, you have to actually be interested in other people - in their thoughts and opinions and interests and such.
2006-11-13 15:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Praise Singer 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Smile more.People will either think you are a pleasant person,or just want to know what's so funny.Either way, you will look more approachable to them.About the boyfriend, don't worry,if it is meant to happen it will.
2006-11-13 15:27:33 · answer #7 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You've got to be comfortable with yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. Don't try to hard. People will like you for who you are!
I believe there is a great love out there for everyone!
2006-11-13 15:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by texascrazyhorse 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why don't you join a team or a club. This will help you meet new people and make friends and you will feel like you're a part of something.
2006-11-13 15:15:25 · answer #9 · answered by arbolito 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Sell food at low prices. Offer lots of sales and coupons and drastic markdowns on the endcaps.
People will love you. Hey, if it works for Walmart, it an work for you!
2006-11-13 15:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by martino 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋