we got married on the 19th august this year,before we was a fantasic couple always having a laugh. now we are married its like i have married an alein instead of him someone please help!!
2006-11-13 06:39:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i know my hubby is the same way we have been married for 9 mnth now . i talk him about it and then he starts acting like his self once more
2006-11-13 11:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever been married long? perhaps you're only dealing with a coarse spot? i comprehend I truthfully have had situations whilst my husband grew to become into being something yet romantic. we've tremendously solid verbal substitute, so i could only tell him what i'm feeling, and what i desire. This area is trouble-free for me... My husband isn't a huge talker, yet an particularly solid listener. perhaps you're able to desire to objective and make a romantic diner for 2 at homestead. mild some candles ect...Relationships are provide and take, perhaps a sprint giving (i'm not conversing approximately intercourse) gets you some romance? solid success
2016-10-22 00:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by turrill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that newly married couples, and especially young ones don't know, is that 'courting' never ends. To have a successful marriage it takes work. Not that courting is work, persay, but you really do have to be thinking about your partner after the wedding, as much or more than you did before the wedding. That means, being a part of his interests, hobbies, etc., making a 'date night' every week is so very important. It will keep things alive and interesting, and you will be surprised how much each one of you will come to look forward to your date night and alternate who plans it--and be surprised! Trust me, it works. Good luck. Communication is the key! Talk to him!
2006-11-13 07:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nisey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is romance his responsibility? If you want to go out for a candlit dinner & some dancing, say so! Don't beat around the bush. Tell him exactly what you want. Most men are relatively clueless about romance but will do most anything for their women. Teach him what you mean by romance. As long as you don't try to turn him into a girl he'll probably play along.
2006-11-13 07:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by WeaselLuvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance has to be shown to men, you need to hold his hand and show him the way, Then reward him for his actions the same way you would train a dog.
sounds crazy but true, You need to your sexy self, dress sexy in a way he hasn't seen ( try secretsinlace.com ) and create romantic situations in which your husband will want to repeat to get the same result ( pleasure)
2006-11-13 07:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened after my b/f and I moved in together. I thought either his parents aren't very loving. (I was right.) He is afraid to show his true feelings because he's afraid of being hurt. (Right again.)
Even if I did something to him that felt too good, he would make me stop. I won't say what exactly, but I know he enjoyed it, he had goosebumps.
I hope you can work through it.
2006-11-13 06:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe YOU should ask him out on a date and get dressed up and gorgeous for him, or make a nice candle-lit dinner with some wine or champaine, and wear a cute little dress. don't just leave it up to him, maybe he's wondering the same about you! both of you make an effort!
2006-11-13 06:46:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For him, the chase is now over, he has already conquered. You have to instill in him that the chase never ends. Be creative, and good luck,honey!!
2006-11-13 06:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
to have a good marriage you must lear to speak with your husband
start by asking him this question because only he can truly answer you
2006-11-13 06:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably romantic with his mistress
2006-11-13 06:45:19 · answer #10 · answered by gozedown 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋