It was my bachelorette party this weekend and my fiance's sis joined us! I dont like her too much since I always get this feeling that she doesnt like me...but we are trying to work it out since I am marrying her brother...anyways we all went clubbing and she was dancing and flirting with this guy at the club....I was kind of shocked because she is married and itwas just weird for me to see that! I was embarrassed too because my friends were noticing it too!So I ended up telling my fiance and now I kind of feel bad about telling him since maybe I should have just let it go! He was also kind of suprised and didnt expect it....She has the best husband anyone can get and seeing her flirt with another guy felt like betrayal...anyways i wanted to know if i did the right thing by telling my fiance and if anyone else had a similar weird experience??Let me know...
2006-11-13 06:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Babe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did ask her to be my bridesmaid....I did not judge her based on me not liking her too much but I think its wrong to flirt after u get married!
2006-11-13 06:49:05 · update #1
Your fiance is your best friend ( I hope ) so i don't think you did anything wrong.
Now if he tells her husband that's going to be a problem. It's over and done with now so just let it go
I just wouldn't go out with her anymore That way you can't see anything you don't want to see.
If she is cheating her husband will find out soon enough
2006-11-13 06:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by prettygirl5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've always felt that you should marry your best friend. I think it's more than ok that you told him. Maybe he should have a brother/sister talk with her and make sure her marriage is ok.
Secondly, I think it's wrong to be so judgemental. If you suspect she doesn't like you, take her out to lunch and find out. As for the flirting, some women are just like that. Her brother's not gonna know but her husband probably does and probably knows it's totally harmless.
You know how you feel about it but it sounds like maybe you're jumping the gun on her a bit.
Also, it's customary that she be a bridesmaid in your wedding since she is about to become your sister. Maybe her feelings are hurt that she wasn't asked.
2006-11-13 06:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I haven't had that kind of experience but I think you have to tell your future husband almost everything you think, they'll make things easier to you, but don't criticize her, he loves her and would hurt him
2006-11-13 06:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by south e 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's nothing he can do about it, her or her behavior. It's over, so don't dwell on it. You know what they say about what goes on behind closed doors: you don't know how her marriage and husband really are.
2006-11-13 06:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loyalty does not withold information. One of life's principles.
2006-11-13 06:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by Bruno Tataglia 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have told if I had been in your shoes.
2006-11-13 06:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋