Should I let my friend move into my house with me and my ex fiance...yes, we are still living together...We have been having threesomes for a year and recently he told me he is infatuated with my friend. I am feeling very insecure about all 3 of us living in the same house now because I feel that this could complicate the relationship I am trying to have with him again. I don't want this to turn into a three way relationship. I have told both of them this and they said it won't be a problem. They have told me it's just sex, but if it is going to be in front of all of us all the time I think it may be a little difficult for something to not happen. Am I being selfish? I want everyone to be happy, but in their own separate way...I feel like it would be very easy for this situation to casually over time bring all of us closer to having a three way relationship. I can't handle that emotionally, but at the same time I want my ex happy too. I am so confused!
2006-11-13 06:28:34 · 4 answers · asked by ~Why~ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
GIRL dont u dare move that girl into your house!!! Your man wont be just yours for long if you do. That's like a personal invite for her to come in & take all that she sees & they'll swear up & down its "just sex", no strings attached. PLEASE. Dont let them play you. Be a woman & stand up for what u know in your heart is right & do what makes u the most comfortable. If your man outs up a fight with this decision, then there u go. U already know sumthing isnt right if he's that insistent on moving her in. I wish my girlfriend would try to move another chick into MY house....HA!!!
2006-11-13 06:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be a fool if you let her...
This is one of the reasons I havent tried to have threesomes with my currrent fiance - they tend to ruin relationships. And, Ive got news dear - if he is your ex, he is your ex for a reason. Keep it that way. If it didnt work the first time, it isnt going to work the second or third time either.....
Hey - at least you can look back on this period in your life with fine memories of threesomes!!! But, the best way to get over someone is to get under someone new. Id be happy to volunteer!!
2006-11-13 14:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by YDoncha_Blowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do whatever makes you happy.
2006-11-13 16:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself happy and stop trying to please others. Its not worth it sometimes. And you are also exposing yourself and others to an uncurable disease. Good luck! =)
2006-11-13 14:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋