(i dont know how too spell fionce.) i want to elope too but i dont want to hurt my parents. my parents feelings would be hurt. already they hate him but im still in love with him and im prepared to spend the rest of my life with him.what should i do?
2006-11-13 06:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by gorjis gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i eloped and it did hurt my mom's feelings pretty bad. maybe you could find some common ground...maybe you could do a quickie wedding and then plan a ceremony/reception for the benefit of your family and friends. good luck to you!
2006-11-13 06:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ducky S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do they hate him? So, their being mad would be made worse by eloping? If they already have hard feelings against him, eloping may not matter. If you do marry him, once you're family sees how happy you are, their anger should fade. But if they dislike him for other reasons- justified or not, eloping is only a fraction of your problem, and only you know what the issues are, and if they are valid.
2006-11-13 14:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your parents dont like him a real wedding is going to cause more stress... elope and have fun.. if your parents love you they will get over it one day... me and my man plan on eloping just because both of our parents are divroced and there are certain bfs and gfs we dont want there so we are avoiding it all together... have fun do something crazy! all that matters is that you two are in love and you are happy
2006-11-13 14:27:54 · answer #3 · answered by bree_1384 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do your Parents hate him?
Is there something you're not seeing in you're Fiance
that they see? Think about it more.
I wouldn't want to give them more reason to dislike him.
2006-11-13 14:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a video of your wedding and when you get back have a party and play the video
2006-11-13 14:29:00 · answer #5 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it ur parents wont know
2006-11-13 14:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋