by the way i have been married 30 years
2006-11-13 06:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by cbrwyrn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel that way sometimes also ~ I think that I have changed the last couple years and we have drifted apart somewhat. I keep hoping it will get better also - but I just start feeling more lonely and sad as I do not want to hurt my hubby either as we have both invested (and I don't mean money) so much into the marriage and kids- that I truly try and make it work and be less lonely. have you tried setting down and talking with your partner and telling them how you feel? I did and it helped a little - caused an argument also but we did talk and that is the main thing.
2006-11-13 06:15:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW 30 years and now you are lonely? I have been married for 8 years and together for almost 15 and I have felt very lonely. My DH works a lot and I am a SAHM so I am with the kids all day and have no adult conversations other then the computer groups I am in and family and how often can you talk to your mother and not go NUTS!!! lol. I think you just have to find something that interests you, a hobby or something. Or go exercise. I have started walking and doing Richard Simmons at home (yes how fun lol) but I have lost 20 lbs and I feel happier. I do have my moments of sad and lonely too but it is better then it was before! Hope that helped?
2006-11-13 06:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--I'm not in a situation like you described. But after 30 years I doubt things will change for you. Perhaps your husband is too self absorbed to figure out that you're lonely and hurting. I would suggest you try to communicate the same to him, but if he doesn't want to change things then things will probably remain the same. It's okay to be concerned about yourself at this point in your life. You are free to make changes on your own--just be prepared before you take action. Good Luck
2006-11-13 06:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's a good question! There are hope ! Just keep some girl friend and behave like yours own wife.And I don't believe it's a cheating!As mother share her love amongst her children,so the man can also share his love amongst his girlfriends.Which does bring the hope of getting better from lonely and alone ( isolation),Just to live a life How you think is everything.You better live every day like your last,because one day you're going to be getting better.
2006-11-13 06:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by precede2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I am married and yes I feel very lonely as far as hope I don't think so.
2006-11-13 06:12:14 · answer #5 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of hope. Treat your hubby like you love him more than anything on earth, want to please him only and often, and do everything for him, love him for 30 days. You will see that he will then respond the same way and your marriage will spice up rather quickly....
2006-11-13 06:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEs I do Been married 16 hate to leave hate to stay go figure.
2006-11-13 10:04:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wallow in your misery.
2006-11-13 06:12:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋